why doesn't my ex-girlfriend show any remorse. she dumped me without any explanation.?

Question

we had a whirlwind romance that lasted 2 mos. her kids loved me . she had 5 kids from 5 different men. i treated her like a queen and she ended up treating me like a dog. i took her kids to sea world and when
we got back. she and the kids were on lockdown and wouldn't even open the door for me. she was evasive and manipulative, but i was crazy for her like a magnet. she has had a history of sexual molestation by
her mothers ex boyfriend. at the end of our
relationship ; she told me she wanted to go
to strip clubs, watch pornos and liked women
too. i was blown away because i wanted to
settle down . i liked the fact that she had alot
of children because i don't have any. she lived with her mom who had the same type of
past . i thought she was the woman of my
dreams but she turned out to be a nightmare
on elm street. why was there no remorse ???

Answer 1

sounds to me like shes not ready to let anyone in
especially a nice guy
she's used to scum and that's what she wants, she was treated like **** and when a good guy like you came around she didn't know what to do because she's never known anything but crap
in her eyes you were too good for her and she felt belittled by you

Answer 2

Have you ever been molested? If so you wouldn't ask such a question. Usually thou the problem with such happens is that humanity is forced to feel everything that happens to them. Espacially sexual. This basicaly means that an individual most come to terms with what has happen, how they feel about it, and what they feel about the person who did it. This isn't easy even in families that have good emotional communication. From the looks of what you wrote your also not the best at emotional conversation or else this wouldn't of got this far so you should be able to relate. Anyways she is so use to ignore her emotions that your present in her life can't be weight more then all the other emotions she feels. In other words she is so satrated by hiden emotions that its easy for her to not show any emotions at all, shoot its damn easy, its her survival technique. Take this as a wake up call, just because a person acts nice, doesn't mean they do nice.

Answer 3

forget approximately relationships. you will possibly prefer slightly "bachelor" time after the ruin up. How approximately purely putting out with pals, inclusive of your ultimate chum? to boot, you do not prefer her to be the rebound lady chum.