Is there a set amount of time after a couple becomes engaged that they should set and announce a particular date, everyone keeps asking if we have set the date yet, and we havent yet, we know that it is customary to wate one year from the date of engagment to actually get married, but when do you annouce the date you actually plan to get married?
2007-03-23 06:16:51 · 18 answers · asked by brandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
These days, anything goes. When you pick a date, let people know. And there is no absolute need to wait a year. Just do what feels right for you guys, that's what is important, right? Besides, it's not the wedding,it's the marriage that follows that is the reason for all of it!
2007-03-23 06:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaHugandKiss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does "engaged" mean to you? Does it mean that you're planning a wedding? That you're "going steady"? That you've now living together ("at least we're engaged!")?
Some would say that engagement means that you've made the final commitment to get married, and that the time between the engagement and the wedding is a practical matter (getting all the planning done).
That need not be the definition you use. You answer can simply be "we're engaged, but are actively planning the wedding right now." If they pry, they are being rude.
However, once you do have a date, let people know, if they ask. Except for your closest family and friends, you don't need to send out a mass-mailing, though.
2007-03-23 13:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people didn't know the date of my wedding until they got the invitation in the mail 6 weeks before the wedding date. Most people did ask before then, and we just told them then. We didn't make a formal announcement or send out save the date cards. Unless you're getting married on a holiday weekend, a day other than Sat., somewhere other than near where you live, or over a year away, it's not really necessary to make a formal announcement. You'll get asked the question a million times so just be patient and tell the people you're still deciding on the date and will let them know. Congratulations!
2007-03-23 13:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by jennyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you would announce it when you set it. What kind of bride do you envision yourself being? A spring bride? Fall bride (fall is the most popular but also will be the most expensive because of the popularity) or perhaps be different and have a mid-winter wedding? And the only reason it's customary to "wait" a year is because it really takes a year to plan the wedding "correctly". Most good wedding halls book up years in advance, so it's sometimes difficult to find one on your date (if it's during a popular time). But to sum this up, it's really up to you. Set the date and send out announcement cards or emails, or just tell people word-of-mouth. Congrats and good luck.
2007-03-23 13:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations,
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2007-03-23 13:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been engaged for two years now. I think when you set the date is when you should announce it make sure you two are compatible then announce it.. We still havent set a date.. We just now are starting to talk about a date but we arent letting anyone rush us..
2007-03-23 13:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by brandonmmarlow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are following an old fashion pattern for your wedding, you can consult a wedding planner, sometimes the wedding will be perform a couple months after the engagement, but the most important thing is set the date that is most convenient for you, it should be when you are ready for this great moment.
2007-03-23 13:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you know. My husband and I knew we wanted an October date right away but we didnt decide on the actual date until a month into our engagemet.
My best friend waited six months to pick a date, then waited year to plan.
I would advise to announce asap so you can get the venues you want.
Hope this helps you
2007-03-23 13:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by mars1021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a date within 2 weeks. We got engaged in January and wanted to get married that fall, so we had to get busy. However, most people don't do it that quickly.
2007-03-23 13:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have anyone decide for you like your family or future inlaws,this is your day you should both decide for yourselves.Maybe your living together now so you have a house...then all you guys have to do is plan your big day and enjoy making the plans TOGETHER.When ever you do decide to tie the knot have a great day and congratulations on your engagement.
2007-03-23 19:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋