He broke up with me 3 months ago. About a month ago he began to send me emails apologizing and we started talking again. He called me a lot at the beginning(we are long distance) but that only lasted like a week and then he called less. He was still calling but less.
I mean, he hurt me a lot in the past and he should be doing a lot more to make it up to me. I felt he's failing me and my expectations. He felt the same way too.
So i broke up with him 2 nights ago. And now he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)
It seems like he's moving on. Is there anything i can do to make him want me again? i actually liked him a lot. And he bought tickets to visit me next week. Now i dont know whether he's coming. I told him not to. Do u think he's totally not interested? should i just do nothing?
2007-03-23 06:09:50 · 6 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont need him you need to find someone that would respect for who you are get over him and move on to
2007-03-23 06:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by airplanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....It sounds like this man don't know what he wants and you are not making the situation better by trying to stay in touch with him. The best thing for you to do to get him to wnatyou again is to stop all contact with him. No phone calls, emails, texts, cards nothing at all. This is the only way he is going to want you. No one likes being rejected and doing that is going to have him wondering whats up with you. He will then contact you and when he does, I would not give him the time of day for at least a month. he will be at your door then. Believe that!!!!
2007-03-23 13:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like you need some time to be by yourself. If he's not meeting your expectations than later down the road you 2 are going to break up again. So save yourself some heartache and just concentrate on you for right now.
2007-03-23 13:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on. If he wasnt meeting your expectations THEN.... he definitly wont now. I think you should do NOTHING with this guy, and find someone who doesnt have to do so much to please you. I think maybe your x did something to hurt you and thats why you feel that he should work harder. Find a guy who WONT hurt you and doesnt have to work so hard. Good luck
2007-03-23 13:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like hes not interested in you anymore.
2007-03-23 13:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on lady. He obviously has. YOu should'nt have broken up with him. Sorry.
2007-03-23 13:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋