My girlfriend was out of town & I went to the club w/my other girlfriends. I saw her friend Tony there & he spoke to us & bought us drinks. He asked to see my tongue ring & asked if he feel it and he bets it feels good. I just rolled my eyes & walked off. Should I tell her? Technically he isn't her man he's just a friend & she rarely sees him b/c she has too many male friends in rotation, lol
2007-03-23 06:06:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, why bother? To boost your ego?
2007-03-23 06:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Stefka 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is never a good idea to tell. It is situations like that when you just keep it to yourself. Besides that was just disgusting what he did, but I don't see it as a big come on. Let it go. For all you know she may actually choose this guy in six months and you will/would feel like a schmuck. Otherwise my guess is she knows what a pig he is but must have some fun with him if she keeps him in the rotation.
You have nothing to gain by telling her. No good would come of it.
2007-03-23 13:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you already have your answer. No. 1. I don't think his asking to see and or feel your tongue ring was hitting on you, and 2. he's not her man, free to see whomever he pleases, so what's to tell? I think you just wanted to ask a question, any question.
2007-03-23 13:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Be her friend and avoid this guy like the plague. Don't jeopardize your friendship by telling her. Chances are this guy is a real pri*ck anyway and she'll find out soon enough, that is, if she doesn't already know.
you were wise to walk away...in more ways than one
2007-03-23 13:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if technically he isn't her man, then just leave it be. It'd be different if they were a couple, which in this case, doesn't seem to be the scenario.
2007-03-23 13:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell this girl because you should be honest with your friends and trust me you do not want ot lose your friends by a stupid mistake over a guy. if your friend thinks this guy likes her you should tell her.
2007-03-23 13:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mans best friend hit on you i would tell my man if i was you because it is important for your man to know you are going to be open and honest with him. hiding secrets ends you up on talk shows like maury and montel williams and jerry springer.. never hide secrets from eachother if you love him tell him...
2007-03-23 13:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex did this to my friend she groined him with her pool cue and yelled "Your husband has had all the fun he can stand." I have never been lucky enough to have a pool cue in my hand when this has happened to me so my usual is "You must be suffering from early onset Alzheimer's." and I walk away.
2007-03-23 13:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has lots of friends, why shouldn't he? There can be no complaints about her 'male friends' playing the field if she does.
2007-03-23 13:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha
i think you should tell her as if you were a good friend you would not keep it from her
2007-03-23 13:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would keep that to myself. Because it's not like your friend is being faithful to him.
2007-03-23 13:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋