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I need advice. My aunt lives an hour away & comes to visit every week or so. Well, I live about 10 minutes out of town but my grandma & my other aunt [her mother & sister] live in town. There are days when my aunt comes to town & will not even come to our house. I know shes closer to them than my dad which is her brother but she's my favorite aunt. She was here the other day & I called her & she was in a diff. town shopping with my aunt & grandma for baby stuff cause my cousin is pregnant. She said she would come over but never called me back. This really hurts my feelings cause she never wants to drive the extra 10 miles to come see the rest of us. I dont want to be mean but I'm ready to say something about it to her. & my grandma always sticks up for her. I cant just ignore any of them either. Its really bothering me. The last time my aunt was down was almost 2 weeks ago and she has yet to call or email me saying she couldnt make it over, my grandma told me & obviously she didnt come........

2007-03-23 05:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by ElizabethKay™ 2 in Family & Relationships Family

So what should I do about it? I'd like to spend time with her but she never comes to our house cause its "too far.."

2007-03-23 05:42:08 · update #1

8 answers

I would tell her what you just told us. Telling people how you really feel can be life changing. Be honest with your feelings and don't be scared to share them.
Use that advice truly and you will see what I mean.

2007-03-23 05:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bones 3 · 0 0

Are you able to drive and have a car? If so, drive the 10 miles and visit her.

If you are too young to drive, could one of your parents drive you the 10 miles when you know your favorite aunt will be there.

If no is the answer to both questions, then let your aunt know that she is your favorite aunt and that you would like to see more of her and see if that helps.

2007-03-23 12:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0 0

You haven't said how old you are, however, most roads offer travel in both directions.
What are your special needs that you aren't able to go there and show her the consideration you expect her to show you??
Write or call her and ask her when she'll be visiting again because you'd like to go see her for a while. If she doesn't reply, it may be time to start asking people close to the situation if there is a reason.
Good luck.

2007-03-23 12:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You could call her and tell her that you really missed seeing her and you wish she'd come over more often.

Tell her that you feel quite a lot of affection for her and look forward to seeing her.

Ask her if she'd please take more time to visit with you, because you miss her very much.

I think that is all you can do... perhaps she doesn't realize how much you care for her?

xo hugz

2007-03-23 12:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would definitely say something to her. Let her know how much you care about her and like seeing her. I'm sure she feels the same way about you. Maybe she could stop by and pick you up the next time she's visiting.

2007-03-23 12:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0 0

maybe thier is a particular reason why she ismt coming ova there (bad neighborhood, etc) Try communicating with her and asking why? Tell her how you feel about things and why you feel this way and why you wish to spend time with her.

2007-03-23 12:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Blax 3 · 0 0

i can understand ur feelings!
but pls try giving her another chance?

2007-03-23 12:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

fp do

2007-03-23 13:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by jimmideon49 3 · 0 0

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