I thought all guys like to be the dominant one... the one in control, bossing the girl around and stuff
But I asked my boyfriend to treat me this way and he doesn't want to!
This is strange because I always assumed males looked down on females and didn't want to respect them...
I get off on being controlled by a man so this is an issue for me
It's really unattractive
How can I make him see that I get off on being dominated and controlled by him and I want him to treat me this way? How can I make him do that?
2007-03-23 05:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both men and women can prefer being either dominant or submissive. It sounds like both you and your boyfriend prefer being submissive. This probably won't work out in the long run, as you'll be unable to fully satisfy each other. Have you experimented with being dominant with him? Best option, find yourself a dominant male. And he should find himself a dominant female.
2007-03-23 05:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by crackerhammermike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not start with the simple basics and ask him to tie you up. Let him make love to you, very normally except for the fact you are tied up. After that first session, give him a few more ideas on things you would like to try. I think you might see the dominant side appear, once he knows you enjoy it. PS a trip to the local sex shop looking at toys never hurts either!!!
2007-03-25 23:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by tyemetght814 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is a very respectful guy. Look for someone else who is controlling and dominant. There's plenty out there! I've had my share!
2007-03-23 05:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by sneaky squirrel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't because outside of the bedroom most men want their partner to be an equal, not a slave. Advertise for a Dom in S&M magazines and you will get your wish.
2007-03-23 05:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to see a therapist. Seriously.
A woman who needs to be treated badly has unresolved issues. It sounds like you have a great guy who respects you. If you can't handle being treated well, please break up with him so he can find a woman who will appreciate him.
2007-03-23 05:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by TeaQueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the one with the problem, you are. You a very bas misconception of a relationship and men. Men are supposed to be supportive and to be there for you and be kind and loving to you. You seriously need help.
2007-03-23 05:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are made for ME! I am black, overs**ed and love to dominate my partner and passive girl drives me high! Be mine, babe!
All the best!/
2007-03-26 01:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a fantasy thing, some girls liked to be choked, some raped in the shower,
2007-03-23 05:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋