Well i met this 3 yrs ago and he always told me he had a twin brother. So basically he asked if my friend wanted to talk to his brother and she agreed. well they still call us regularly and everything he acts like it is all good with all of us. But me and my friend both has proven that he is the same person but he has more than one phone and i still have every number he ever called me off of. But they sound just alike, say the same things, and he got caught plenty of times with us on the phone by the stuff he says. but what i would like to know is how can i get him back without letting him know that we're not on his trail?
2007-03-23 05:34:45 · 15 answers · asked by Tasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is so funny..I cant believe you both fell for it...you must b really stupid. lol.
2007-03-31 00:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I typically don't advocate this, if you and your friend both know that this person is one and the same, it's time for some "head games". Time to teach him a lesson !!!
It's so simple, just schedule a double date--and you and your friend will meet "them" at their house !!! If he really has a twin, then the four of you will meet and go out together. If he's lying about having a twin, then the truth will reveal itself soon enough. If only your boyfriend is there, and says his twin brother couldn't be there for some reason, then you and your friend will offer to wait until the "twin" returns. If the twin never comes, (because there isn't any twin) the truth will be revealed.
Or you could schedule a double date out somewhere. Once again, if the twin doesn't show (because there isn't one), you'll both know the truth for sure. If your boyfriend shows up, and says his "twin" couldn't make it, your girlfriend will insist on calling the twin at all the numbers she has available for him, to find out why he stood her up !!! Of course, if there is no twin, your friend won't get any replies. And if your boyfriend's parents answer the phone, and your girlfriend asks for the twin by his name and they say "wrong number" or "no one here by that name", that is also confirmation of the deception. And your boyfriend won't be able to answer any phones in front of you, because that will surely give him away !!
Once he is exposed, you and your friend will then break up with him, and he doesn't end up having either of you. He doesn't deserve either of you. Laugh in his face and walk away !!
Now here's a thought for you. If you met this guy three years ago, I would think you would have met his family, including his "twin" brother by now. Have you never been to his house ? Have you never met his family ?
2007-03-28 01:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shoot, suggest a double date with your girlfriend and the twin brothers. I think this one is playing both you and your friend and are indeed one and the same individual. What else do you know about him? Find out where he graduated from and go to the school and ask to see a copy of that years Year book. Ask the school whether he has a twin in the event that he would say that his brother dropped out. Good detective work will catch this one!
2007-03-31 10:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by sunset 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like such a great girl. Why then, would you want a relationship with a young man who "pretends" to have a twin brother? Maybe if he fooled you and your friend for a one-time-only phone call, it could be considered a funny joke on someone. But for him to continue the charade of a twin brother is either a deceptive ploy to be able to date both of you simultaneously ~ or he has deep-routed psychological problems.
You can certainly remain friends, but as I just explained, you deserve better in the "romance department" !!
2007-03-31 04:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Adios 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have your friend tell his twin brother that she is just crazy about him and she wants to go out with him. Then you start putting pressure on him to double date with her and his twin brother. If he weasels out of that, as soon as he starts to, she should begin the same thing with his 'twin brother'. Have both of you coming at him at the same time, quite innocently and filled with lots of enthusiasm and make it sound like so much fun that he really has to go out with you both and bring his twin brother because it will be so much fun! If he really balks and argues a lot, get excited and tell him that you're going to have to have a conference call to get everyone organized for this date. Then talk at him so much that he gets confused - keep asking him details only the twin would know and some that only he would know - you get the general idea. Stress him out and enjoy the show. He deserves it.
2007-03-30 21:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go 2 his house and ask his parents if he has a twin brother if not then u know that he is cheating on u and if yes that he has a twin brother then u know that he is not cheating on u and so he doesnt know give ur name different 2 the parents so that he wont find out and go at a time when his not at home ok .
2007-03-31 06:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this question. Why do you want to be with ANYONE that's playing such a dishonest GAME? When people's hearts are involved I can't think of anything worse.
So listen, until you have "both of them" standing in front of you I wouldn't be looking to get my heart broken over this.
I know,,set up a double date? Or each of you (girls) attempt to make a date where you meet at a place and see if he tries to juggle two tables..Then when you catch him!!! DUMP HIM.
2007-03-31 09:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkprincess5455 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like he is possibly trying to get with you and your friend which is disgusting but he is trying to play it off by saying he has a twin but really doesn't just using it as a excuse to get with you two, but yeah obviously you and your friend aren't stupid and maybe he knows it too,so just go along with it for a while,then tel him that you decided to go gay and that you and your friend has no need for men ,then he'll try to convince you and you be like okay invite him over make him seem like you guys are going to chill and then be like we'll see what happens but then tie him up put make up and a wig on him,some lipstick and take pics post it on the Internet and he'll be feeling stupid for a long time..lolz
2007-03-31 11:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by krazi3_303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother always says "The best revenge is living well." Steer clear of mr split personality and have a great life. Don't even engage in these silly mind games. Good Luck!
2007-03-31 07:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by cilsavon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you want to have a relationship with someone like that? who is playing with both of you? every relationship stands in honesty, that´s a MUST! and you don´t have this with him! don´t waste your time anymore!!, he´s not for you! you deserve true love, the one you can trust, the one that makes you feel secure and loved...leave him!
2007-03-31 07:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is really good he tries to cheat you both then why you want to get into trouble ?If i was in this situation i would better leave him and Will not have any contact with him in future also
2007-03-23 12:45:42 · answer #11 · answered by Riya 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋