ok we see each other and we make out hold hands and all that junk well he has a girlfriend... last night i called his brothers phone to tell his brother to call my friend well his little girlfriend answers and i ask for his brother... last night i told myself that after that happen i was done with him needless to say i have done this before with him and it didn't work (girls if y'all saw him y'all would understand) ne ways last night i cried over him i have never cried over a guy i didn't go with thats not what i do i (usually) just get over it and move on but with him its different... he drives me crazy... So i guess the question here is what do i do when i'm really like this dude, and i know he really likes me because he came over to my grannies just to see me when i was sick. How do i get over him or get through to him that i really like him and i want to be with him...???¿¿¿
2007-03-23 05:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say hey! I love/care about you alot and i want a relationship with you but you have to choose me or her. we cant go on this way . depending on his answer you may/maynot come through this happy. if he doesnt end the other relationship then he doesnt really care about you. ive been in a relationship with a hot guy before so i know where you are comin from . for some reason they think that because of their looks they can have their cake an eat it too , with multiple females. i know you may love him but you gotta show him that if he really wants you he has got to do right by you. otherwise you are just gettin steamrolled by your own feelings for him. i hope this helps you hun and good luck.
2007-03-23 05:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he is affectionate. That's one point towards something!. Personally if that was me calling hehe I would have done that very same thing! I'm a scaredy cat. I do understand where your comming from.. Theres one I really like to.. but I'm so damn shy its pathetic! I know its defintly hard to do a get over and move on...cause it aint happening over here. I really should use some of my own advice. Since he's been affectionate and all that I would sit him down and talk to him. Tell him you want to be with him. If he feels the same he'll tell you if not. Thats the time I would say goodbye and find someone else to love.... I really really should be taking my own adivce in this catagory.
2007-03-23 12:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he likes you, but he likes you right where you are...as the "other girl." Personally, I find that awesome, but in reality he doesn't actually like you enough to break up with his current girlfriend. And really, why should he? You're giving him exactly what he wants, two girls for the price of one.
You need to cut him off. Completely. No brother's phone or anything. Let your friend do her own work. If he comes to you then figure that all out when it happens, but don't allow yourself to be doing things with him while he still has a girlfriend. And when he tells you they're broken up, you had best see her somewhere bawling to prove it.
2007-03-23 12:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old are you.... your words sounds like teenager... what i think... forget about the feelings... live the moment. The guy is nice, you said he likes you, so, why are you trying to blow up the relationship? enjoy the moments you have with him... live and let live.
Your words make we think he is handsome... so, enjoy! Its better to divide a candy with somebody than eat excrements alone...
think about!
Brazil
2007-03-23 12:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brazil Rio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said that he have a girlfriend so i would definately tell you to move on. have you asked him about this girl?
if he really likes you then he would have left his girl but don't get me wrong maybe he likes you but i guess not enough for him to leave his girl....sorry ( you should talk to him, ask him what's up)
2007-03-23 12:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and if that's not good enough for him then let him go. I understand that you REALLY REALLY like him but; no guy is worth your tears, but when you find the one who is, he WON'T make you cry. Good luck chica!
2007-03-23 12:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by belladonna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snip his ba11s off
2007-03-23 12:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dlck Fook d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋