Here is the problem, there is a guy who are totally special at attracting women, his jokes and tricks are awesome. I guess my ex-girlfriend is just attracted to. I'm very desperate, I love her so much,I just can't let her go. How to love her sincerely? How to not feel pain when seeing her with the other guy? or can you teach me how to become fancy in jokes and conversation like that guy? please help me out..
2007-03-23 05:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by sight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go. If she truly loved you she would of never went to someone else. Pain is part of the process. Remember it and don't allow yourself to ever do it to someone else. What can you do to get over it? That depends on you. Start talking to other ppl and trying other things until you find something that works.
2007-03-23 05:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrighty I have this same problem with my ex in a way
I have someone right now and its ok but what I had with my ex nothing compares... So all I did was be my true self and showed her I loved her and still do... now I know I can't love her the way I want to but I can at least show her I still have feelings... To not feel the pain just become her great friend and talk to her about her relationships... But if you want her back really bad... be cool... and become more aware of what she is really interested in
2007-03-23 05:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by TinyE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant beat yourself up over this and try to find ways to change to be more like someone else...be yourself, if thats not good enough as hard as it maybe and as untrue as it may feel then shes not the one for you, but more then anything if you love her as much as you say you do, let her go...if she comes back then you know you two still have a chance and that she really loves you too, and if she doesnt come back then you know to move on. Just remember that God has a reason for everything...your in my prayers...God Bless!
2007-03-23 05:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem reminds me of the movie the holiday. Rent it today, it tells you at first of the different kinds of love. I think you are the last one. It's sad but true. You are in charge of your life. Don't go chasing after someone who isn't giving anything back to you. I have done it....it only ends in heart ache and one broken heart. Move on brother.
2007-03-23 05:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by chillililly18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be yourself and remain true to yourself, don't try to mimick what someone else is doing. Let her know you don't appreciate that she seems to have an interest in another man and if you're wrong you want her to show you that she loves you as much as you love her.
2007-03-23 05:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex don't want to be with you, she don't . Period. you can't make her, and you can't try to be like someone else to change her mind. It won't work. You may love her, but she don't feel the same way. Save yourself the heartache, and move on. Don't try to be like someone else just to get her to like you.
2007-03-23 05:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS consistent with my awareness d rationalization given via d female is punctiliously incorrect it replaced into purely she ought to not oppose the determination taken via her family individuals n she have been given married to that guy. yet nw their could be some prob between them n she desires to quite the relation so that is going to b solid if u shop out of the priority n plan your existence without her.
2016-10-19 10:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your not supposed to go out of your way and change your personality just cuz of that. She is supposed to like you for who you are and if that isnt how its going to work out then she def isnt the right person for you. There are plenty more fish out there.
2007-03-23 05:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If she doesn't love you back for who you are, then you're better off finding someone that has just as equal if not more respect for you.
2007-03-23 05:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to put yourself out there and have fun. be nice to her, be nice to him, and be yourself. if she is going to love you it will be because of who you are, not who you act like.
2007-03-23 05:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋