Ok. I was talking to this girl and we instantly connected. The only thing was that she was talking to 2 other guys. She stop talking to one and really felt more interested in the other one besides me. So one day we got into an argument and we decided to call our friendship off. It's been a month, and now she calls me and says that she misses me and wants to talk again. But I think that she's only interested because she probably got dumped by the guy she fell for and wants to get back with me as a rebound. Should I talk to her or not?
2007-03-23 05:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends because cause I'm a girl well she probably realized that she liked u better then the other guy.... But u could be right she could be us in u as a rebound but i think u should talk to her and see what she wants...but if she tells u that she got dumped then she's us in u as a rebound but do what u wanna do.... Trust me I've been in a situation like this but i was having sex with the other guy then he cheated on me and then i realized that i could do better so i went back to the other guy and we've been to gether almost a year now so we've fixed my mistake so u do whatever u want and what ever feels right.... k. well luv ya bye! Kayla
2007-03-23 05:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is what do you have to lose from talking to her again?
Answer: nothing.
Keep your options open.
Date other women while talking to her.
Don't let your feelings get to involved.
Ever heard the saying.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
It applies here.
2007-03-23 12:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Guess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what her motives are. if she really wants to be your friend, be her friend, but don't get too involved with your feelings right off the bat. hang out once in awhile, but not regularly. take your friendship slow and find out what it is she is really doing. if she's using you for backup, step off. nobody deserves to be a backup.
2007-03-23 12:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should talk to her but don't start any relationship with her. she's playing with your emotions and you shouldn't be comfortable with her. to me it sounds that she is confused and doesn't know what to do with herself so she trying to switch men because they got rid of her.
2007-03-23 12:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sasay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋