Have you ever?

Question

Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame ane wondered "What if?" - you know like what if things would've been different for us?

Answer 1

Yes. But they weren't, and so therefore it was not meant to be or it would have worked. The same as if you were not meant to be alive you would not be breathing. Things that ARE - are natural and effortless, just like breathing. We create problems when we try to forge and force things into existence that can't hold naturally on their own. When they hold it's because they ARE meant to be. It's the same law of attraction in relationships.

Answer 2

I'm thinking about an old flame all the time. I really do wonder what if? In my demented head, I feel that we were soulmates.

Sigh, But I'm too chicken to contact him.

Answer 3

hi,
yes i have wondered what if, and wished that i had made better choices when it came down to that particular person. i have even gone so far as to think about how to get him back from that woman that i knew was no good for him, but then i snapped myself back int reality and remembered it was all my flat how my life has gone, and how his life had gone, and why did i think i had the right to destroy his life, the life that he built for himself after i tore our lives to shredded, then i realized that i have a good life, and that he has a good life, so i should be happy for him and for myself.

Answer 4

i did.. not the smartest idea in the world.. my old flame is engaged!
plus i think he still had feelings for me.. so he actually continued flirting with me.. and i realized why i said bye to him earlier.. its cuz he is not very truthful!

yeah my what if q's are cleared with him!!!

Answer 5

many times

Answer 6

yeah i do it all the time but the way i look at it is everything happens for a reason so yeah

Answer 7

hundreds of times

Answer 8

no cause we broke up for a reason.