This guy told me that he had times when he thought of seriously dating me, but that when he realized he knew he needed to pull away. Why would you even say that to someone?
2007-03-23 05:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been seeing each other for 9 months.
2007-03-23 05:20:41 · update #1
Because he is afraid of committment. You probably got really close to him and alot of men fear being hurt so they pull away the very minute they realize that they could be hurt. Girls do it too. He probably had a really bad break up and hasnt been able to be in a serious relationship since.
2007-03-23 05:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just scared to commit...he's thinking all those stupid guy things...like what if right when I do commit someone else Im interested in comes along...and crap like that, its really a bunch of crap they feed you....if I were you I would tell him that I am tired of waiting around and if something doesnt give soon, then Im giving up and moving on, maybe then he will know that you are serious and that he is risking losing you and hopefully he will make up his...sorry if this doesnt really answer your question in the way you were looking for but I do hope I helped, at least a little bit. God Bless!
2007-03-23 05:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants u to know that hes scared for whatever reason to committing maybe somebody has hurt him in the past and hes trying to not repeat the same mistake.Do you feel hes stringing you along maybe hes not a relationship kind of guy but doesn't want you to know that, (fear of losing you) so instead he lets you know that he has contemplated the idea of a serious thing with you.
2007-03-23 05:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by kkwants to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is afraid of commitment. That is what it sounds like to me... Or he still wants to date more then one girl at a time.
If you are interested in him then you should say, why don't we date each other exclusively... See what he says to that. Then if he doesn't answer that or says no then he is just not ready for a serious relationship.
If he says it agian you shouls say "Oh really, I have been thinking about that too?" and see what he says.
2007-03-23 05:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already told you. He is just pulling at your heart strings because he is not ready for a serious commitment but he also does not want to lose you. If I were you I would seriously reconsider your relationship.
2007-03-23 05:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by kinreep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His life plan does not include getting serious at this time. He has other priorities. If you care a lot find out what those priorities are. They could involve career, education, establishment of wealth, sexual plans, etc.
2007-03-23 05:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably scared of committment and getting hurt. maybe it's his roundabout way of getting your insight on the relationship. maybe he wants to slow down. you should really talk about it and see where you are. if he wants to slow down, you need to know. you need to know where you are regardless.
2007-03-23 05:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lame line. He is playing with your head.
Seriously, stop overanalyzing. Find a new guy who will be honest with you. You deserve it.
2007-03-23 05:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree he is afraid of commitment and or being hurt!
2007-03-23 05:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by ....~K.C.~.... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser! He tells you what you want hear and disappears?
Buh-bye!
Good luck to ya!
2007-03-23 05:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Done 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋