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My guy came home from Iraq about a year ago and he had a rock hard slammin body. We have been together for two and a half years and I love him very much. About two months ago he started gaining alot of weight and he never mentioned until now. Hes working out now and getting in shape again. Should I be worried?

2007-03-23 05:11:56 · 31 answers · asked by jesakah_myers 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

I'm not sure what it is you're thinking you should be worried about. Do you think his eating and gaining weight was emotional?
Ask him if it was. He's probably carrying around a lot of emotional baggage from being over there.
Be loving and supportive without being naggy.

2007-03-23 05:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by TeaQueen 3 · 0 1

How much is "a lot" ?

If you love him you'll accept him no matter what weight he is, but at the same time you have to be concerned for his health. If " a lot" of weight is 20 or 30 pounds then that's not really too bad, but if it's more than that you should be concerned for his health.

You did say that he is working out & getting in shape again so i don't think there is any cause for concern.

2007-03-23 05:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

My guy had a friggin' AWESOME body at one time... then he kinda fell back and is now just a bit above average... so yeah... ? I don't find the need to worry cuz it's his body he should know how to take care of it... I mean I'll mention a few things here and there just because I am his GF and I do have say so I say what I think is necessary... but I still don't judge him because he gained weight... I love whats on the INSIDE!!! :)

2007-03-23 05:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 0 1

Dont worry. He probably had trouble when he first got back from Iraq (my husband did) and let himself go a little but it seems like he wants to get back in shape. Coming back from Iraq is very hard on a person and sometimes they go into culture shock bc it is two different worlds. Dont worry he will be just fine.

2007-03-23 05:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 2 1

Sweetie do not worry, your fiancee is been in a place where human soul is very cheap. Did you know that most marine or army personnel that came back from middle east are all consumes by fear. Men will not show their emotion,esp. if they're in the military,all that you can do is love him, and support him, his emotion and fear finally hit him so what he did is maybe just eat till his weight got heavier. Stand, support, cared and love him esp. now and that will be the best medicine that you can give him.
I'm saying this to you because I'm a military wife as well and I lost a lot of marine friends here in California because of the war.................just remember nothing is wrong and do not worry so much or else his going to sense it....

2007-03-23 05:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0 1

I wouldn't worry usually a soldier gains a little weight coming back home.. if he is working out to get back i n shape it is for himself and because when you are in the army your colorniel tells you what to do when you get home that way you are fit enough to go back into iraq and keep up with your troops and leaders .. it is important to be strong fast and willing to throw power

2007-03-23 05:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0 1

What are you worried about?
He wants to get back into shape and get the body he once had before.......

OR are you worried cause before he wasn't all that attractive so the competition wasn't there, and not that he's going to be smoking again you feel that you might have to FIGHT to keep your man????

RELAX.... he stayed with you for this long right? If you feel this work out with him, and show him that you too can have that HOT body..........

2007-03-23 05:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Why should you be worried. He just wants to get his nice physique back, thats not a problem and plenty of girls do it if they have had enough of thier bodies.

If you are really worried look out for other signals. Him getting in shape just means that he has started taking care of himself again, and also he knows you loved his body before so he may be doing it for you.

2007-03-23 05:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0 1

No you shouldn't be worried he was just letting himself go a little. Let him do what he needs to do and he will get back to where he started. so, if you love him you shouldn't care what he looks like on the outside but only on the inside.

2007-03-23 05:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sasay 1 · 1 1

No need to worry because he is starting to get back in shape again.

2007-03-23 05:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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