He also has a female friend who I have met briefly (less than an hour visit) 3 times. Whenever they hang out I am not present. I call her his emotional gf. It bugs me. Am I being irrational or too jealous? We have been dating over 7 months. He says he loves me and she is just a friend. I can't figure out why we never hang out together or with her and her bf. Signing out confused. I don't consider myself so insecure or insanely jealous woman. Just seems the scenerio is not sitting right with me.
2007-03-23 05:10:18 · 17 answers · asked by sue c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he's told you he's "had better," no wonder nothing sits right with you.
You're better off with a guy who will love, respect and appreciate you for who you are.
He sounds like he's full of himself.....(just my opinion).
2007-03-23 05:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is who you want to be with regardless of what people are saying then ask him what would make it "better" with you. If your not sure that he's cheating on you don't accuse him cause if you do it to much and he's not cheating he may start to think he might as well since you already think he is. Even though two wrongs don't make a right if you don't trust him now you never will and further more what is a relationship without trust. NOTHING! No one can really tell you what to do every relationship is different. I hope you make the right decision for you and not for everyone else or anyone else for that matter.
Oh yeah as far as the friend that just happens to be a girl next time you see her talk to her you just may be surprised, she could turn out to be a great ali in the end. Or at least it will help put your suspicions to rest.
2007-03-23 05:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by arshaun2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue, now is a good time to back out. I've been in your shoes before. I didn't find out that I was being fooled until after the relationship was over. This girl was around before me. I didn't think any thing of it because it seemed as though she accepted us(me and the dude) being together. I had doubts, any woman would, I just tried to trust him. We broke up for another reason. But it eventually came out. Back away, and see what he does.........Everyone knows that even if you have had better, don't tell that person, especially if you care.
2007-03-23 05:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by reallyjollyreally 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time he is in the mood and offers to show you what a stud he is, ask him for the remote control for the t v and watch wrestling while he sweats and moans. Tell him to let you know when he's finished so you can do something important like wash a load of clothes or give your dog a bath.
2007-03-23 05:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With that in mind also then you should maybe break up with him. If you think that this other girl is his emotional girlfriend does that mean you are just he's physical girlfriend? If so then that would mean she gets a lot if not all his love and you get nothing but bad sex.
2007-03-23 08:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, he cheates on you emotionally. This is the worst betrayal. Without the emotional connection, then he is only using you for sex, no matter how much "better" he may have had. Why do you give it away?
Save yourself for someone who will treasure you for you, and not for what you may be used for.
2007-03-23 05:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any proof he's cheating on you physically with her? Then don't worry... guys are permitted to have friends of the opposite sex. About his comment... did you let him know that it hurt/offended you? I would have told him at least getting "some" is better than "none", if you know what I mean.
2007-03-23 05:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your boyfriend having had 'better' have to do with his female friend? Is she the 'better' that he speaks of? If not, why mention her? These sound like two entirely different issues.
2007-03-23 05:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she reallly is just a friend u have guyfriedns right so let him hang out with her go with them a couple of time and see how they act towards each other but girl if see signals let to him about it there could be sone cheating going
2007-03-23 05:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not insecure or jealous however you are STUPID!!!! Damn your man is playin you!!! He is most def having relations with the other girl. Is it me or are 90% of women just plain stupid when it comes to their man cheating. It's so so easy that's why so many do it, cause of women that DON'T wanna believe it's true.
2007-03-23 05:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by wutzcrackinb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋