i just broke up w my bf cuz i found out he ws cheating on me with my best freind . they got together when i was out of town. and a freind of mine said she saw them doin it at a party . I couldnl't believe it ! me and my guy were so close . and then he pretty much told me he wanted to break up anyways cuz my bst friend is hotter than me and she sexes so much better .!! rite now i'm so mad and confused i don't no what to do . tell, me should i kill my boyfriend or my best friend ? or howabout bolth .
2007-03-23 05:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by yur_mama_sucks_lollipops_in_hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have nothing to do with the both of them. She is not a best friend... If she was she would have never slept or went out with your boyfriend behind your back. If your thinking of taking him back I wouldn't...
The best treatment is no contact. If you keep on going at them then they will see how much it bothers you... Don't let it get to you.
The best thing to do is not talk to both of them.. let them be. I would go about your own business. I would thank the friend that told you about that. Now, she is a real friend!
2007-03-23 05:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While right now your hurt and in pain. YOur probably thinking on how many different ways you can get these to backstabbing idiots back. STOP THINKING THAT>>>>>
In my opion they deserve each other. Your best friend would never do that to you if she was really your best friend. On top of that Any man who loved you wouldn't have cheated on you. So what you really honestly need to do. Is mope about for a few days. eat alot of comfort foods... Watch old sappy love movies that make you want to cry ... CRY.. then after about three days of this.. Get up get dressed. Get a friend that you know and love. Who knows what's going on and go to a movie .. or a club or something. A few days of poor pittyful me will really really help. And don't try and jump into a relationship right now. Wait for a while to make sure your not just getting into a relationship b/c you feel like you have to make the ex jealous. You don't want to hurt someone else just because your hurting... Best of luck with this. I know it can be hard. But this will probably be a good thing in a few weeks. You'll hurt right now but see that in the end... It's the best thing possible... *good luck girl*
2007-03-23 05:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go killing anyone. Some say the first cut it the deepest but to get over it talk to a good friend or a family member like an aunt or sister.i kn ow that break ups hurt. my last ex said i was a controlling person and that he has had better sex which we never had.. so i was kinda wondering what planet he was landing from when he said that.. but just to get over it listen to songs and write in a diary or something you know will calm you down and forget about all the bad things he put you through...
2007-03-23 05:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you will possibly desire to easily placed all the stuff that reminds you of him to a minimum of one part, %. up each little thing else on your existence and get on with it. in the beginning that is going to be relatively not straightforward not having him there continuously yet after a on an identical time because it gets extra undemanding. you mustn't inevitably flow finding for a clean love or relationship or despite purely have relaxing being you and being who you prefer to be then while the time is suited you would be waiting to start back be that with him or somebody new. yet for now your substantial precedence might desire to be you and what you at the instant prefer from right here on out. it is your existence, stay it
2016-10-19 10:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not do anything about that but to ignore your bf completely and to be just careful next time when love will strick your innocent heart.
Cheaters are many but only they are made to teach us lessons and to get known to much more worthy persons later on.
Life moves on and on...
Good Luck.
2007-03-23 05:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not worth your time. Stay away from them. There is no need to get physical but just remember you are much better than either one of them!
2007-03-23 05:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋