My husband works at a crappy job which is nights (cause he got fired last year and has been in a slup about life every since)
I went back to school cause I was tired of living a crappy life. I am almost done school I can't work after school cause i can't afford daycare right now there would be no point i would make nothing and my husband watches my daughter while im at school then goes to bed when I get home. Money has been really tight lately and I want my husband to have the same hope for a better life and find a different job that pays more.
How do I stay positive and help my husband be positive about his life and career too.
2007-03-23 05:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Deb D 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Life today seems to be stressful for most of us. We're working harder and carrying more responsibility. The pace is fast, and competition and pressure are everywhere. It's easy to lose sight of our values and priorities, and it seems that despite everything we have many of us feel off-track, unhealthy or sometimes unfulfilled and that can impact our relationships and even our productivity. Just do what you can to keep the peace and harmony at home. Your husband needs you, but he also needs to work on himself on his own. This will pass. Times get better. Good luck!
2007-03-23 05:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by shygal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is so much I could say to you.
The first thing and it really works is using the law of attraction.
Everyday, think that life is already good.
List all the things you are grateful for and read them over and over every day.
Life used to be very bad and I did these things and surprisingly everything started getting better.
Tell yourself every day, and every part of the day you can think of it, that life is wonderful.
Also, whatever you want to do and whatever he wants to do have him write that over and over again (like doing lines in school). The cartoonist Scott Adams did this (he wrote I will be a syndicated cartoonist every day several times) and he got his goal. I did this and my dream came true too! Make sure it is realistic (like what you are training for) and his too.
See the movie The Prizewinner of Defiance Ohio and read the book: true story.
These are just small parts of it. If I can get my hands on all the things I did (I wrote them down) I will edit this and add them.
2007-03-23 05:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by honeysistagirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to friends & seek counseling. Most counselors charge a sliding scale, based on income. Nothing wrong with counseling. Develop a positive & understanding support system of friends & family. Exercise, take multivitamins, & follow the Food Guide Pyramid.
2007-03-23 05:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do no longer think of approximately stress. What happens - happens. yet existence is going on. only save going. And after wet climate sunlight constantly comes out. once you focus on the adverse activities on your existence you block your self from understanding that some thing good happens to you too. existence is gorgeous. the rigidity and mess united statesare only stress and mess ups, so what? only bypass by ability of them yet settle for and stay by all good issues that ensue on your does"n rely vast or small:)
2016-10-01 09:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by gizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋