hi, i need some piece of advice, i was being bothered and i really dont know what to do. im living on a rented room or a one door apartment. i'm inside the room with my bofriend watching tv when there was a knock at the door and it was my father. i go outside to see him but i never let him in cos my father doesnt even know that i have a boyfriend. i just talk to him outside my room but he never stayed longer cos he just brought something for me. then after 3 hrs he texted me that i'm with a guy, im still young(24yo), i should avoid temptation something like that. that means before he knocked at the door maybe he already stayed outside for a minute or so. my boyfriend is a married man, please dont get me wrong cos i know this is a big no no...now my very big problem is i was caught in a situation that i dont know what to do what to tell to my father if ever he confronted me the next time we see each other.should i deny that all he have heared was the conversation from the tv or what.ty!
2007-03-23 05:04:28 · 11 answers · asked by cy928grace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're 24 years old and you live on your own. Your dad can't exactly tell you what to do, you are a grown woman who can make her own decisions. I think the real issue here is you are dating a married man. How would you feel if your husband was not only sleeping with other women but dating them?!? How do you know that you are the only "girlfriend" he has?
2007-03-23 05:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 24 years old, dating a married or not married man shouldn't be your father's business. If he asks you the question, just say that you are not ready to introduce him yet because it's not serious enough. And by the way, you dad should call before going to your place....You're an adult after all.
2007-03-23 12:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by bubuane2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD UP......Your bf is a MARRIED man. Keyword is MARRIED! Are you out of your mind? I would not have a man staying with me if he was still legally married to another woman....OH HELL NO!
Are you DESPERATE to be with someone honey? There is better out there for you. If I was your dad I would beat this guy's A** for trying to take advantage of you like that. Open up your eyes and smell the word MARRIED!
2007-03-23 12:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to decide who to be with, and your parents shouldn't interfere. You should tell them though, because it is better to be open with your parents than to have a secret life they don't know of. Do remind them, however, that they don't have the right to spy on you- you're Dad was probably being a bit to nosy.
2007-03-23 12:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by tsbski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 24 and shouldn't have to explain anything to your father...unless you broke some type of agreement the you two may have had. However, you do need to find another boyfriend--one that isn't married.
2007-03-23 12:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by licydechorerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all if u live w/ur father & u pay no bills I don't care how old u r u shouldn't have a MARRIED man in his house. That is just disrespectful & u shouldn't lie to ur dad in his house gurl!!!
2007-03-23 12:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you should not be with a married man---if he is cheating on his wife he will cheat on you too (is he charlie sheen by chance?)
you are an adult and live on your own it sounds and can do whatever you want---you are not your parents responsibility anymore--make your own decisions but please be kind to their thoughts on the decisions you make
2007-03-23 12:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married. End it. You're destroying some other woman.
2007-03-23 12:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know your age but statistics show that 99% of married men wont leave....mine did for me but its rare! Unless he is divorced forget him.....show him the hiway!!
2007-03-23 12:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if he still doesn't know?..deny it..and when you get caught, try the daddy-daughter approach..
2007-03-23 12:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by hmm?. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋