why dont guys notice me?

Question

ok my friend is a door and she gives every guy she meets the key to open that door and yes of course my friends a whore and ya i dont know and it always seems like guys go right away to her she is a natural flirt and ya me im a quiet person my question is how do i become more inviting to guys without seeming like a whore and beable to have alot of dates you know where i know some guys are intrested my friend steven says everyday that im gorgeous and ya but hes gay so what does he know and ya i just want to know also why if im so " gorgeous " why guys dont approch me

Answer 1

Don't make your friend your competition. Don't change for anyone but yourself, just be yourself and don't let anyoe change you. Remember, guys may like to fool around with a whore, but in the end, it's the sweet girl they bring home and introduce to the family. Just be social, but hold your morality higher than your lust.
A.L.

Answer 2

I was in the same situation in HS. I asked a good friend who was a guy why the guys didn't like me or ask me out. He said that all the guys thought I was cute and had a great body but I was a little bit "Intimidating or overwhelming". He said if I could just hold it down a bit they might ask me out. I thought about what he said to me. It occured to me that I didn't need to change anything about myself just for a date. That the right guy would come along and accept me for who I was and would appreciate my outspokeness and vitality. A few months later I met the man I would eventually start dating and marry right out of HS. He is a little older than I am and was much more mature than the guys I had been wanting to date in HS. We will be married 22 years this June.

In HS guys are pretty intimidated by just about any girl they think might turn them down. Your friend gets dates because the guys know she won't turn anyone down. You don't want guys of that quality. You want a guy who is mature enough to take a risk and ask a girl without knowing the answer will be yes.