So this is the story girl ignores boy.
Boy in the first year tries to get close to her.
Girl ignores and becomes kinda mean but does not insult him.
Boy and girl get close in second year but don't bring out feelings through words.
Boy even tries to make girl jealous but no effect on girl.
In third year girl tries to talk to boy but boy ignores and insults girl.
Girl then insults boy and both are angry with each other.
Well the girl is my best friend and is been depressed past few days, anything i could do for her?
2007-03-23 04:55:25 · 17 answers · asked by I love myself!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. guys this is not my story, i is seriously my best friend's. I've already got a boyfriend.
2007-03-23 05:52:25 · update #1
Ask her not to worry.... These things do happen in life.... I think he might be testing her whether she loves him really or not.. If this is the case he will be back to her soon... If not as a friend it is your responsibility to console her and get back to her real life.... Make her feel that this is a game of the fate that she might a get better person who love her more than his life..... I wish her happy love life.....
2007-03-23 11:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by sumanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes may seem harsh though tell her to stop playing games if she likes this guy tell him and apologize for everything that went on . Both people were at fault but she can be the bigger person and make the first step. Both of them seam to have feelings for the other once they were hurt they tried to make the other one feel pain as well . She can fixed this tell her that
2007-03-23 05:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by ot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the guy must be a typical cancerian.... hmm these pepole need to be told they are loved at regular intervals...
any case the guy and the gal are still immature shows it in their behavioural patterns....
Let the girl take easy... nuthing to worry..." ask her to keep dropping few words How is he... thats it and make her give a puase to the flow of things..
by the way the ghuy behaved int he last few years it is obvious he will come back if he is truly interested.... and then.. this time let both of them be clear what they want ahead out of this relation..
Cheers !
2007-03-23 04:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl isn't interesed in boy but boy likes frienship nonetheless. be nice to her let he know you're there for whatever frienship consoling she needs and move on with you life. don't dwell too much. if she is truly a good friend you'll get pass this. we all try adn rush too often. My man and i have a motto " i'm tired of waiting" real life isn't like that. we always have to wait for the good stuff. it's all good just enjoy the times till they come.
2007-03-23 05:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend and tell her that she needs to talk to him again. if she likes him then she should go talk to him and say sorry. even thogh it may have been his fault. it will calm him down. you can also talk to the boy and do this vise versa. but anywase. have him or her talk to the other one. then have it worked out. if she likes him have her tell him. if he likes her have him tell her. if there bolth ltting go of the tention and they bolth are gone of there hates for each other. they should idmite to liking the other one. becuse it will be easer rite then and there then 2 or 3 days after the tention is broken. hope i helped!
2007-03-23 05:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a movie to get her mind off things. Or, go shopping... anything fun that will get her out of her own headspace for awhile.
2007-03-23 04:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually this is ur own story & my dear u r the only one who has to decide whtr u want be frnd with that boy or not
2007-03-23 05:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by chin2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to take her mind off of it go hang otu at the mall or at the movies
2007-03-23 05:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Haven H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama.
she will mature i hope, and stop the games, and find someone nice in the end... you can't force her to stop acting like she's 5.
take care.
2007-03-23 04:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the expected happy end is still to come, you think......
Wait and Watch.
2007-03-23 05:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋