What do you do when you are bored with a relationship?

Question

I love my man but the relationship has gotten really boring lately. No surprises, no fun events, it's even hard just to go out to dinner. What should I do?

Answer 1

Well use your imagination.Do the opposite of what u normally would do.If your use to eating in then go out for dinner.If your use to having sex in bed do it elsewhere like in the forest burger king bathroom etc....Light some candles dress up play parts.Take a class to learn how to strip tease n do it for him.U could also take a class of something together that would interest both like dance classes.Re decorate your house or room.There r soooo many ways to spark up a relationship just you have to b willing that's all.Surprise him when he comes home from work n have the house all set up for a romantic evening or day whatever time he gets home.Have some whipping cream handy whatever it takes to spark things up.Good luck n hope these suggestions help.Bye 4 now

Answer 2

Talk to the guy.. Without communication your relationship is doomed. He might be feeling the same way. Why don't you take initiative and make plans. Plan a fun Saturday or dinner out during the week. Spend an evening taking a walk on the beach.. You love him then you should be able to spend time with him anywhere. Good Luck

Answer 3

Heat it up. Ladies are always waiting for the guys to make the relationship passionate, but you can make it fun yourself. Plan a dinner for your man, at home, and make it the most romantic evening of your life. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Suggest some stuff even seeing a movie works if you go once make sure u enjoy it you'll both want to carry on going :)

You obviously love him you show him and hes prbs will bk its jus what guys do we hide away for ages then suprise ya wen you least expect it.
If you cook dinner for him you can then say right cause ive done that you can take me out for dinner now ;)

C how it goes :)
GoodLuck

Answer 5

Try to make it fun. You should start off all the surprises and make the fun activities then he should get the clue to do the same. If all else fails, just dump the dude but stay friends if you still want to know him.

Answer 6

If everything else in the relationship is good. Then stick with it, maybe you are just going through a hard time right now. I would call it boring, i would call it routine. You both know eachother well enough to be in a routine and that is a GOOD RELATIONSHIP!

Answer 7

u take a break from it. while u r on the break u could start thinking of possible way to get it back and if u can't come up with anything then u should just give up because the relationship is not going anywhere.

Answer 8

Why don't you bring the spice back into things. Get something sexy to wear around him, spark up his interests again. Find out if there is something on his mind. Do something he likes doing, football or bball games, etc... Don't make it about stuff you want to do, you get him interested in you again, he will be willing to have fun doing the things you like, but you got to give back. It is a two way street, don't make it about you.

Answer 9

S**t, I don't know I'm in the same boat...and everyone says "spice it up a bit, try something new, go somewhere fun" but what happens when it is still boring?.....let me know what you find! Good Luck

Answer 10

why don't you set up some fun activity then. it's not his job to read your mind. I'm sure that he is bored with you too but you need to talk about it or just break up. Nothing else you can do.