Hey.. i'm a real athletic kinda girl, hang with the guys alot..basically considered guys best friend.. but i always feel like i want more then that.. that i want to be more then just a friend.. but when it feels like thats acutally happening.. like i am beginning to be more then just a friend with a guy.. i start panicing!!.. errr normal.. or just weird??
2007-03-23 04:47:48 · 16 answers · asked by Jackie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND ITS NOT ABOUT SEX.. just dating in general
2007-03-23 04:53:09 · update #1
It's definitely normal. Most of your guy friends will probably just see you as another person to hang out and watch the big game on Sundays (I'm the same way, so I know what you're talking about). For me, if I thought a guy and I were moving past the "just friends" stage, I'd panic because I didn't know what I'd be getting into and didn't want to get hurt in the process. But I came to realize, that I wasn't willing to take a chance on those guys. You will come across a guy that once you get past the "just friends" stage, you're going to feel comfortable around him and you're going to want to take that chance and see where things go. You probably just haven't come across him yet, but you'll definitely know who he is once you get to know him.
2007-03-23 05:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, That's normal. But too much panicing is bad too.
In my point of view you are acting weird just by looking at the situation. YOu should not just watch the situation, jump into it. If a guy started liking you, show you like (or do not like) him.
Anyways, guys always go in for the first move. Just go with the flow.
2007-03-23 04:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by A. Roman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I want to have a boyfriend and get married but when I meet someone I start to panic. I think I just don't want to get hurt. If I were you I would take a chance.
2007-03-23 05:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are in an actual dating situation or if you just have a crush and they don't know about it, some jitters are normal. I'm not so sure that it depends on how old you are because I was married very young. I am sure no matter how old you are this is normal.
2007-03-23 04:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you are "guys best friend"..your still a girl...Your not use to being anything but a friend to these guys so it is understandable how you feel...You will just have to try something new....branch out and go with your feelings.
2007-03-23 04:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scared to test the waters face ur fear take a chance its just like the first time at bat facin the first fast pitced ball u wont ever experience the game if u dont swing the bat connect with the ball
2007-03-23 04:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah it's pretty normal chick. i've been like that in the past like i thought i knew what i wanted but really when it got down to it i had no idea.
2007-03-23 04:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal, but you sound like a tom boy so it will feel weird at first
2007-03-23 04:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a tom boy. My exgirlfriend was one to. She blossomed into a beautiful woman and it is not weird.
2007-03-23 04:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by lvillejj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it normal..its fear but the best way to conquer your fear is to prove it wrong
2007-03-23 04:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋