My dad hooked me up with his Best friend nephew.
I have known him for many years, but we never got too know each other like we have for the pass 2 weeks. I know its a short time, but I cant help but fall face 1st for him. Hes something that I just been neededing. And what makes me crazy about him is that he told me my dad is the only "parent" he can talk to about his troubles in life and my dad is an amazing man in side and out. And I'm daddys little girl and only child. When he told me that last night I couldnt stop smiling =) So I figure if my dad hooked us up together then he must be a good guy. And man is he I cant get him out of my mind and hes FINE and SEXY =)
Always a plus+..
But I have somewhat of a boyfriend in my life right now and I just need to tell him TODAY that I dont want to be with him anymore. I just need help to do it or what too say.
2007-03-23 04:46:27 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend now is 33 years old and The new guy in my life is 24 and I'm 21 him and I are in the same age group.
2007-03-23 04:58:12 · update #1
The best advice I can give is that you simply have to tell your "boyfriend" that things are not working out as you have expected and to prevent either of your from getting hurt. The only way to prevent is it to break it off. Tell him that it is nothing against him, but he is simply not the mate that was created for you. It will be hard and may hurt, but the best way to tell anyone is just to tell them. Hope that helps.
2007-03-23 04:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Russ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r not clear on ur mind.... and please though it may be fun ur treading a dangerous path right now...
What if... after u get along with ur dad's nephew.. U meet a super gorgeous Man... who is the best for all .. and u feel the conversations u have with him are just great and ar ein no comparison with ur present boy friend/husband...
With tendenceies like this ( refer to u changing ur present BF to a this Nephew guy) u will only create problems for urself further...
See Nature doesnt promise beauty and more importantly SEX APPEAL to u forever... after 10 yrs u need to be with a person with whom u ahve built bonds of trust , passion confidence over the years...
So for the moment.. u feel the nephew guy is great.. Go Ahead.... If not the next one.. But very sooon keep a pause.. and start utmost focus..as i mentioned Nature's Law applies to every one....
Cheers ! and All the Best. Hope the reply dint hurt... God Bless U
2007-03-23 11:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by destiny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure this new guy likes you as much as you like him?
Also, why is this other guy a somewhat of a boyfriend, because of his choice or yours?
Those things are important to know before you actually say goodbye and hello.
But, for the somewhat guy, just let him know that you have met someone esle that you'd like to get to know better and that you don't want to lead him on, so you think it's best for you to stop seeing him.
For the new guy, don't go too fast for him...guys like to be the ones who set the pace, because they don't want to be bossed, led, or changed.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 12:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't lead your somewhat of a boyfriend on. Let him know that you've met someone else, and that it isn't going to work out between you and him right now. Remember to tell him how wonderful it has been to be with him so his ego doesn't get crushed.
2007-03-23 11:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tjhere is only 1 fair way to deal with that.
You need to be upfront and fair with your BF and tell him you met this other guy, and that you are very attracted to this new guy, and that you want to be with your new guy. So you cannot be romantically involved with him anymore.
He may be upset, but he will get over it.
He may ask to stay friend with you, and there you need to ask yourself if there was friendship between you and him or just romance. If there was friendship you may keep it at that level, and be crystal clear about it, for yourself and for everyone else.
Good luck !
2007-03-23 12:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Alain G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. It will hurt him but it is something you have to do. Do not drag it out or get caught cheating because that will make things worse and be disrespectful.
2007-03-23 11:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by love me despite it all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We seem to be going on different paths...
We want different things out of this relationship...
or, just tell him you want to get pregnant...that'll send him running!
2007-03-23 11:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Summer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I'm sorry, but I've moved on.."
2007-03-23 11:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋