i hate my life so much i dont have anymore friends they left me when they found out i was pregnant i have no mum no dad or any brothers or sisters my boyfriend is avoiding me and i fill so alone i thought about killing myself i really need help sorry about the spelling
2007-03-23 04:21:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thankyou everyone who has posted a comment i really am greatful you all have really made me fill good about myself for once and i am going to look to the future for me and my baby girl i have called a doctor and i am seeing him on monday i just wanted to say thankyou for all your help and advice thankyou once again all my love becca xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
2007-03-23 04:39:45 · update #1
hey there first of all i have felt like this once i moved away from my family 180 miles away i have no family here just a husband and my little one and my husband works 12 hrs a day so i dont see him that much all i was looking at was 4 walls and i just wanted to get a baseball bat and smash something until i got about a go to a play group with my daughter and i met alot of people there and now we have a laugh they come to my house i go to theres and we get on well but one thing i must ask you if you fell like killing yourself you need to see someone get help tell the docter how you feeling and they are there to help you good luck hope you feel fine soon hugs lindseyx
2007-03-23 04:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if those people where your true friends they would still be around. It is their loss. As for the dude, he got what he wanted a piece of a##.. You don't need a guy to make your happy. Being pregnant alone must be tough, but you can't let the world get you down, cause you are not living for just you any more. Killing yourself will also kill an innocent person that would one day call you mom. Live for your child and friends will also come and go, but your kids are always your kids. Join a book club, or some other social event to try and make new friends who like you no matter if you are pregnant or not. Be strong!!!
2007-03-23 04:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rebecca l,
Let me begin by saying your life is most important to two people and that is you and the child you are about to have. Friends unfortunately come and go as well as boyfriends. Try to see it as this EVERYONE in your life has a line some lines are long and never ending others line are just a dot. Now this does not mean the dots are insignificant this just means this dot may have been for you to change a direction in your life to a better way of life (i.e. your boyfriend) he may continue his dot at some point in your life but that is not for you to concern yourself with, your goal is to find positive things and people in your life that will bring to you positive change. Now the people that are lines in your life just because the line is long does not mean they are good for your life. Understand this everyone that passes through your life serves a purpose and dont let it stop you from being the beautiful and loving person you are. Death is not the answer never is, even in old age nobody truly wants to die but we all ponder it at some low point in our life, believe it or not you will be missed and loved but we would rather have you here. At least I know I would keep your head up and remember that what does not kill us only makes us stronger and prepares us for lifes next lesson.
I love you and many people you will meet and have not met love you to.
Take care.
2007-03-23 04:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Big Boy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself isn't an option. Your boyfriend obviously isn't the right one for you, if he's avoiding his pregnant girl. Get away from him and focus on you and your baby. My ex-husband treated me like crap throughout my pregnancy and I often thought about ending it all as well. But in the end I had this beautiful little boy come into my life and he changed me forever. Your child will provide you with an unconditional love like no other! Forget about all the bad things in your life and start working with what you DO have. Surround yourself with positive people, whether that's through church, school or other fun activities. Anyone who leaves you in your time of need, is NOT your friend! When you start to feel down, think of your baby. Focus on the beautiful successful future you can make for yourself -- but you have to think positively! I know this is easier said than done, but you need to find help with this through a counselor, pastor, friend, etc. Once you make positive changes in your life and start to love who you are, people will just naturally gravitate towards you. And you will eventually find a man who will truly love and respect you and your child. If you ever need someone to chat with, you can reach me at paddington_ck@yahoo.
Chin up and remember that you are a unique irreplaceable miracle of God! I wish you the best in your life!!!!!
2007-03-23 04:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the one that what makes your life go round not all your so called friends ........when things like that happens you usually just get up dust your self off and get right back on the horse and if no one wants to be around you then they are not blowing hot air over....get your act together girl....you have a tiny little life inside you that needs you now and for the rest of his or her life and they will love you more than you know you wait til you look that baby in the eyes for the first time and you will see......when you go for an ultrasound to see that true life alive inside of your body you will be in love all over again.....if you try to hurt or kill yourself then you are not giving your baby the chance at life he or she didnt ask to be born you helped in that department so what if no one wants to talk to maybe they were boring in the first place join a new moms baby club somewhere or go to the park and find you some new mommies and friends im sure everything will work out for you and if the babys daddy is a jerk then he isnt worth having in the first place girl you dont realize how many guys are out there that are willing to love you and your baby and be a good man to you and be a good daddy to your baby you just arent looking in the right places.......you and your baby are in my prayers and i hope you realize what you are talking about cause that baby needs you so much.......good luck and if it is any consolation i will be your friend any time you need to talk to me you can email me at att_i_tude2006@yahoo.com i wish you all the best and you keep your head up high.......
2007-03-23 04:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find no answer in ending your life. Seek a counselor for help. There may be somewhere you can go for unwed mothers. A support group would also be a good idea - you could get the support you need and meet some friends with the same issues you have.
2007-03-23 04:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think killing yourself is the answer, you need to get some counselling and get over this feeling. Have you thought about doing some activities like taking a class just to reintegrate yourself and not feel so lonely. You could also do some voluntary work and that will give you more self esteem.
Whatever you do do not take your own life, think of your baby.
I wish you all the best.
2007-03-23 04:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, killing ur self wont change the situation. calm down and no need to worry. if u need friend to share, u can always reach me. honestly, i'll be happy to help u. my advice is move on with ur live for ur baby. u dont need ur boyfriend. all u need is to be tough person. u have to! people makes mistake, so what, after that u have to face it! there always a way for everything in this life. dont see the problem! see the future with hope and everything will be better, u just have to trust ur self and encourage ur self. i know u can do it! come on girl! be tough! i wish u the best and take care. ok. juz let me know if u need me. God Bless U.
2007-03-23 04:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by EJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go tothe nearest shelter seek counseling u have a baby to live for now and when u hold that child for the first time u will find someone who loves u unconditionally and u will love them unconditionally when we are pregnant our hormones are so whacked out i went thru this twice bleve me i know i felt like a beached whale it passes u can change ur whole life around the power is within u search ur heart start loving urself u are special u are created as a most beautiful gift for the world to discover in answerin ur question i feel i am talking to myself back in the day my children are grown now ur adventure is just beginning Good Luck ur in my prayers here ! I survived so will u Keep the faith! cling to it it is a gift
2007-03-23 04:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't depend on other people for your happiness. You're pregnant and regardless of the situation, a baby is a blessing from God. Everything happens the way it is supposed to. Focus on staying healthy for your baby and don't look to other people for happiness.
Trust me, the first time that you hold your baby you are going to look back on this moment and wonder how you could have ever felt the way you do today.
2007-03-23 04:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋