There is a guy in in my job that seems to be similar to me in some ways, he is shy and quiet so my co workers are always telling me things like "you both are the same, you could be together" anyways they didn't really know I really liked this guy, so they say the same to him. From the beginning, he has always been nice and sweet with me and I have even thought that I liked him at least a little, but yesterday, after several days I didn't see him,he didn't even say hi (me neither) and I must confess that I was trying to avoid him because I know he knows he likes me, and you know .... my coworkers tell things to him and so. At the end of the day a co- worker tell me she talked to him and told him, "why don't you talk with her? "and he told her" I will , I have to", but he didn't (the same told to another co worker days ago, and he didn't either)What can I do, What do you think?
2007-03-23 04:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Workplace relationships are a fiercely bad idea, because no matter how peacefully it ends, it makes work uncomfortable for one or both of you. Don't pursue this.
2007-03-23 04:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and ask him why is he avoiding you and if there is anything wrong you have done or said that annoyed him. Also, let him know that you respect him and like him as a coworker and let things progress from there. Spend more time with him, go out for lunch, talk more fun and study him thouroughly and see if he also likes you
2007-03-23 12:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by EDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, talk to the guy. Ask him why he's been trying to avoid you.
2007-03-23 11:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by calmangel4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing around and go for it - sounds like you would be good together. :-)
2007-03-23 11:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guy............... get it over with.............
2007-03-23 11:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 11:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋