Right now I have 2 children a boy and girl to the same guy.My boyfrind now does not have any kids,he is also 6 years younger then me.He wants kids but i don't know if i should.I am 33 almost 34 and I want to grow up with my kids now who are 2 and 5.Also I don't know if I can handle another one.Help from anyone who has been through this or something similiar.
2007-03-23 04:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by princesspea0916 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I have not been in that situation but heres my opinion. If your not sure you can handle another baby then you shouldn't have one. I would wait and see where the relationship goes, maybe into marriage. Then you can think about it at that time. I also have to kids, boy & girl, 5 & 3 and they are a handful. I know where you are coming from by saying your not sure if you could handle another. Good luck!
2007-03-23 04:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you guys decide to get married then you could talk about it. Make sure he is in it for good or you will end up raising 3 kids alone. If you have any doubt, you should wait.
2007-03-23 04:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as another person said, 'arent there enough people in the world?' and I agree....this planet of ours can only hold so many people, and right now it's almost full to bursting!!! I sympathize with your boyfriend, but he has to consider this as well as your feelings...you could always adopt, but only if he agrees to be a good, caring, loving father....
2007-03-23 04:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU SHOULD HAVE ANOTHER KID! I am one of two kids. I am in high school and my brother just went off to college thisear. Now I feel like an only child. You don't want to do that to your kids. One sibling is not enough. Trust me.
2007-03-23 04:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by ..::Leila::.. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are healthy, Can afford it ,and have the time & Patience I say go ahead!! Kids are a beautiful but of course you know this already!!
2007-03-23 04:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by I'm 1 up on you!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont have kids with him he may never be truely happy. if i were him and wanted kids i would leave and have kids with someone else, besides you aint that old, it will be great
2007-03-23 04:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by satanmonsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't there enough people in the world?
2007-03-23 04:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Partisanshipsux 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't think so but if u can handle a third child it's ok
2007-03-23 04:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 7r3kn0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yest, almost you touch .....10
2007-03-23 05:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Julia Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋