well i am a guy in college and so my guy friends are all kinda, different...i'm in an engg college and they're all studybugs..they dont want to go out and enjoy..all they do is study. i'm getting bored. there's no one of my taste. i'm lonely. i dont have a girlfriend too. i 'm too shy. whenever i approach a girl, its like i dont know what to say next. many girls have shown interest. but its just not working w/ any girl. please help, when i see a guy and a girl...i feel bad...i'm so lonely..pls help me change...
2007-03-23 03:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by drno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in dire need to strike a balance between your practical and emotional needs for an imbalance in either will lead you to difficulties.
Remember, you are now in a professional course and the grades are going to matter for all your successes in future. Therefore, you should not neglect this aspect in life by straying into mind-wandering which will have a crucial bearing on your career. So better Concentrate 100% in your studies as the others are wisely doing.
Once you start doing better in college a new self-confidence will emerge, which will also help you in tackling your emotional needs as far as making friends with girls is concerned and you will be able to strike a healthy balance between the two.
Meanwhile, a casual involvement in light-sports will also help you in overcoming your boredom and thinking about girls all the time.
2007-03-23 04:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying too much,because before you know it ,without looking it will just happen.Just be you.Thats what the right girls want. If you like yourself,people will like you back.so even if your not happy with yourself at the moment,pretend,and see the results.Just try it out.It makes you look more confident,whch is a great attraction.Have you noticed how much attention the gobby ones get?but deep down, they more than likley have problems too. In fact !they say,the louder and crueler they are the least confidence they have.thats why their like that.(They pretend they are better than the rest,but their not.)Its just that they know it gets results if they appear to be a leader.SO JUST ENJOY BEING YOUNG AND SILLY FOR NOW
2007-03-23 11:49:06
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So sitting aroung feeling sorry for yourself is going to remedy the situation?
What is the problem? Women are people too (at least the last time I checked.) Talk to them like you would any male. And don't think you have to have a line or move to attract them, just be yourself. Honesty is the best attraction.
2007-03-23 11:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry: Move with all equally.if a girl comes and move with you as a friend you move as a Friend. otherwise leave it: do not do any research on this: be as a common person like others: if you see any different behaviour try change yourself: If you need without any worry go and meet a doctor:
2007-03-23 23:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude frankly speaking i would love to suggest u is that u need to stop thinking what others do think about u u are basically introward by nature just dont think too much about it & if u really want to talk to anybody dont think that kya bolunga kya nahi just go & talk subjects automatically come out u just need to start doing it thats it u wont face this problem anymore.
2007-03-24 03:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by gorgeousrohit_vishu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude ur guy frnds r really sucks so if u want to be frnds with girls just go for it without thinking abt anythng else. dont feel embarrsed just get going
2007-03-23 12:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by chin2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to find friends that are into your hobbies. Then you need to practice saying in the mirror what you would say to a grl to ask her out or tell her she looks pretty that day.
2007-03-23 11:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to relaxxxxx...have a few drinks maybe,,practice talking to girls online to get an idea what to say, or just jump right into practice talking to people anywhere,,,jump in, face your fears, you wont overcome them if you dont,,,and nervousness is greatly disguised with humor and self humiliation, so dont be afraid to crack jokes or make fun of yourself
2007-03-23 10:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Answeroni-the dime piece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a master in ur subject.And see how girls approach u for help,with respect and love for u.Then u can have all the fun..
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2007-03-23 14:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by sachkehtahu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, you are doing engineering and it is not a joke. you may feel that your friends are not like you but i think they are doing the right thing. i am not going to give you a advice on how to chage your behaviour of your friends but i can tell you to become like them
2007-03-24 01:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kanishk Rawat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋