Tho the other night i was out and i kissed another guy, should i tell my bf wat happened, or should i leave it, tho i can't stop thinking about the other guy, but i do love my bf
2007-03-23 03:50:07 · 15 answers · asked by Tezza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all have temptations......that's a part of life! But, before you're so quick to say that you love your BF, I think that they need to reconsider. First of all, you definitely need to be upfront with your current BF. It may have been just kiss, but how would you feel if your BF did the same thing, and you had to find out for yourself? You would be hurt, right? You have got to put yourself in other people's shoes. You don't even have to tell you BF that you kissed someone necessarily, but maybe you should rethink about being in a relationship at all. Maybe you just want to be free and explore and see what's out there. There's nothing wrong with that, but don't play with people's minds and emotions. You wouldn't want that for yourself. Secondly, six weeks is nothing! You are still getting to know that person. I call it the "puppy love" stage where you feel almost inseparable from the other person. Love takes time. Love is a dynasty. Love is built up over years and years....not months. Just be honest with yourself, and whoever you are with. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you find your love and happiness!
2007-03-23 03:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by mixed_beauties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a ruff Situation I've been thought the same thing with my boyfriend and i never told him we been togeather for 2yrs now.Im guess it just really depends on how serious was this kiss for you if you able to deal with the fact that you boyfriend might not trust you again or even at the worst break up with you then tell him. If it didn't mean any thing then i suggest you don't tell him and hopefully you'll get over it!But you might also want to question your love for him you most likly dont love him if you thinking about this guy!
2007-03-23 11:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in love in 6 weeks? How can you be in love in such a short time? And if you were, why would you be kissing someone else and now thinking about that person? You're not in love, you're in like. You like the guy you're dating.
Did you and he agree to be exclusive? If not, you don't own him any explanation. If you did, then you should tell him what you did and that you're not ready to be in an exclusive relationship, but that you'd like to date.
There is nothing wrong with dating multiple guys, but don't go sleeping around or heavy petting with multiple guys
2007-03-23 11:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you really care for your present BF? because if you did you wouldnt have kissed the other guy you think. So maybe you should rethink your relationship with your BF and make sure you want to be with him or not.
2007-03-23 10:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. In the future, some guy somewhere is going to ask you, have you ever cheated before? And you are going to say, well this one time I kissed this other guy when I was dating so and so... and that guy who REALLY LIKES YOU, and YOU REALLY LIKE TOO is going to stop dating you because ALL GUYS AND GIRLS KNOW... once a cheater, always a cheater, and he doesnt want to get his heart broken. So enjoy sweets... you've just become a cheater.
2007-03-23 10:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were in a serious relationship with your boyfriend you would of never kissed the other guy and still be thinking about him. tell your boyfriend now. before he finds out about it from someone else. good luck.
2007-03-23 10:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to check the difference between love and lust. u may love your bf and are just lusting over the other guy. just dont make the mistake of mixing the to . Your probably just nervous that you and your bf are getting serious.
2007-03-23 10:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by jesakah_myers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Six weeks? You can't be in love. Break up with him before you hurt him even more-and wait until you're older to date someone seriously.
2007-03-23 10:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love your bf.
If you did you wouldn't have kissed the other guy....and you wouldn't be thinking about him now.
You're obviously young and not mature enough to handle a relationship.
2007-03-23 10:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first u need to figure ou twat u want, do u a serious relationship with ur BF or a fling with the other guy. after that u need to tell ur boyfriend no matter wat, he deserves ur honesty! put urself in his shoes if he did that too u wouldnt u want to know?! follow ur heart, best wishes!
2007-03-23 10:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋