Me and my boyfriend have been togeter going on 7 months now on March 24th. But i dont think it will last another day if i dont get help with this situation. I trust my boyfriend and i always play with my boyfriend cell phone but now he is starting 2 get very sensitive about me touching it, so 1 day I had took the phone and dialed my # cuz i couldnt find my phone and accidently pressed the camra picture gallery button and found some pics of his ex in some decent poses but still IT WAS HIS EX! And his excuse to me was his friend which is her now boyfriend sent it 2 him because he wanted to kno if "his friend" was going out with his ex because he described her exactly from A 2 Z and he wanted 2 kno if they were talking about the same girl!TELL ME Y would another man send a pic of his girlfriend 2 another man!It was just not adding up?!?!?! WHAT SHOULD I DO AM I OVER REACTING?!?!?!!
2007-03-23 03:46:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Over exaggerating? Interesting...
Overreacting? Yes you are, sorry...
2007-03-23 03:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cautious. He may be telling the truth, but it sounds pretty lame to me. If his friend DID send him those pictures, your bf should have deleted them right away and asked his friend never to send them again. And another thing I would be concerned about -- how he doesn't like you looking at his cell phone. He should have nothing to hide and shouldn't care at all if you look at it. Be sure that you communicate with him about how you feel. I went through a similar situation and kept seeing all the signs, but held it all in. Not good. If he cares about you, he will shape up. In the meantime, try not to worry too much, but also try to be smart and not get walked on. Hope everything works out!!!
2007-03-23 10:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you are not at all.. definitely shouldnt have pics of ex in there.. also y didnt he delete the pics off after dude sent it to him even IF that was the case?? no reason at all to keep them on there unless you jus cant take them off but thats obviously not the case.. and plus he should of been up front with you from the beginning instead of getting all sensitive which makes you think that there is something goin on..i would definitely pay attention to how he is acting and if anything seems different.. thats really about all you can do now
2007-03-23 11:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That explanation sounds questionable. However, sometimes things are not what they appear to be. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Still, keep an eye on him, now that he's acting sensitive when you touch his phone. Having said all that, you need to learn that your guy is entitled to some privacy and you should not put him in a position where he has to explain every call he makes/receives. that will definitely lead to resentment and force him to keep secrets from you to spare your feelings. Don't force his hand. Give him enough rope to hang himself.
2007-03-23 11:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u invaded his privacy but u are justifying invading by actually not admitting to urself u dont trust him follow ur gut instinct the boys will b boys suits these two they are sharing pics like keeping score at a football game the question is do u want to wind up being shared on cell phones too if u respect urself and the man respects u he would b holding those pics for himself to enjoy not sharing them with the boys at the office we ladies have to respect ourselves to earn respect from a man the story is old theres women in the locker room adn theres women u take home to meet mom again follow ur gut instinct
2007-03-23 10:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to calm down. If he has the picture of her in his phone ask him to erase it on the strength of you. If he declines then yeah you should worry. He may still be messing with this girl behind your back and just trying to have you string along too without knowing. Yes his story does not add up at all. I wouldn't over exaggerate though. Just do you from now on. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 10:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you wouldnt want him toggling through your phone and no he shouldnt have pics of his ex no matter who's dating her now. Yes you should let it go but just keep a close eye on him but dont go through his phone even if you misplaced yours use the house phone to locate your cell. Dont use his phone as an excuse to find your own and look through it you may find something your werent excepting to see.
2007-03-23 10:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. First off men have this thing where they like to show off thier girls. Also they have a thing where sometimes they dont like have other friends ex's as thier girls. Such as the reason they broke up beings cheating, bad habits etc etc. its like the unwritten "guy code". secondly i would be totally wigged if it was mine too. The best thing is to talk to him, calmly. Dont scream at him, or lay blame, just express your feelings about the pictures on his phone. Its hard to do trust me, but things will work out.
2007-03-23 10:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Frappomocho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think ur overacting..the story just might be true but i would want to know why he still kept the pics cause if it was just to see if it was the same girl then there is no need for the pics to still be in the phone
2007-03-23 10:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea25609 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over reacting at all. That's a really strange situation, and your boyfriend gave you a really bad excuse. Sit down with him and talk about it, and if he won't talk, then end it. You can't have your boy snooping around your back.
2007-03-23 10:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not over reacting no man send pics of his ex liek especially in another pose... so umm sorry but ur bf is telling porkies as we say in england...
2007-03-23 10:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋