I'm 18 and there this dude whos 45
and he liked me for along time now and now that i tunrt 18 he wants 2 go with me i have a boyfriend but thats no problem i can get rid of him the real problem is its my bf's dad. should I go with him?
2007-03-23 03:41:49 · 42 answers · asked by Peachez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fever.sleeves kiss my *** b**** u dumb ho jus b/c nobody likes your ugly ***
2007-03-23 03:46:41 · update #1
its my bf's dad not my boyfriend and i just want 2 try something new, ppl in my age range are boring. i luv my boyfriend. Also i guess i like older men becuz my mom was 20 when she had me and my dad was 41.
2007-03-23 03:58:54 · update #2
ewww...no. and tell the bf whats going on, as well as ur parents
2007-03-23 03:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious.
But just in case you are, let's look at the reality of this situation that you are obviously overlooking or just cannot see because you are naive.
Your boyfriend's dad is a child molester. He may even be a rapist (i.e., "date rape" or straight out RAPE). The man is 45 years old and making moves on an 18 year old girl - an 18 year old girl who in no way has the wisdom, maturity OR capability of dealing with and handling a man of his age like an older woman could. He should be seeking out companionship with a woman HIS OWN AGE and not someone who he can take pure advantage of, and also not someone he can GET AWAY WITH disrespecting and violating because she is not mature or wise enough to KNOW that's exactly what he is doing - to YOU AND HIS OWN SON.
If you don't have feelings for the boyfriend anymore you should leave him alone but by all means tell your boyfriend how his own dad is coming at you and leave that situation with his DAD totally alone. If the Dad persists in pursuing you I'd call the authorities on him.
2007-03-23 03:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really serious? If you go beyond the point of being interested in someone that is the father to someone you have been dating then you are so clueless. First of all the older guy just wants to see if he can have sex with someone as vulnerable as yourself and if you let him then he will have won. Don't you see that this is all this older guy wants and you are willing to break up with your bf for his dad. You need some counseling b/c if you go through with this you will be called every name in the book. So don't feel bad in the end when you end up with no one. You will become a laughing stock to everyone if you are really considering doing this sick crap. Get Counseling at the nearest facility you have in town.
2007-03-23 03:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do do this? What possible good can come out of you dating a 45 year old guy?
Ok this is you wanting to date a 45 year old guy, you mom had nothing to do with this. Dating behavior is not passed on through the genes you idiot. Take responsibility for your own actions. You want to date a 45 year old guy fine, go do it. But don't whine about it after the guy screws you and leaves you.
2007-03-23 03:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely NOT go with him. You need to tell your dad that this man is making you uncomfrotable, he's your dad he will understand even if it is his best friend. You are his daughter and should come before his friends. You also need to make your boyfriend aware of the situation so he can look out for you. If you feel you can't talk to your dad talk to your mom this matter should not be taken lightly.
2007-03-23 03:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by heatheranne102777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say you can get rid of your boy friend It sounds to me like you've already made your mind up. I suggest you do not go through with this. Put yourself in your boy friends shoes and imagine how you would feel if he broke up with you because your mother had the hots for him? Just say no dear, you'll thank me later.
2007-03-23 03:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to be kidding me well if ur into older men sure y not but be carful it might not last and if u do make sure its the right choice cuz what if u want ur man back and he denys u up and down because u went out with his dad oh well good luck though i hope sum how this helped out
2007-03-23 03:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by twistedlove10204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 45 and you're 18 but he's liked you for a long time?
He's a predator pure and simple.
Stay away from this man.
2007-03-23 03:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not go with him. Since you say it would be easy to get rid of your boyfriend you must not care very much for him so do break up with him but do not get with his father. I advise getting away from both of them and concentrate on going to college to further yourself. You will find many more interesting and attractive people more your age in college.
2007-03-23 03:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by bvtc6677 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u insane or out of ur mind!! hez so much elder to u n moreover if ever ur bf discovers that he wud be so hurt....men at that age of 45 just fall for any young girl....how can u just be attracted to him....i m sure u hav plenty of other options too.....
2007-03-23 03:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by anjali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG no that is so disrespectful to your boyfriend and plus that is sicking i gag at the thought. anyways wat about your bf's mom or the older guys wife u should tell your bf and if he doesn't believe u i would honestly just leave them both!!!! And definitely tell your parents who cares if you might get into trouble something much worse could happen if you don't tell them
once again EEEWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 03:47:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋