I have been going out with his guy for about 2 months and he is great , funny, cute, actually wants to hear what i have to say, he's perfict(well close enough anyway) its my first normal relationship, and i have never said i love you to anyone besides my parents, so im not sure when to drop the L bomb. I want to i want to say I love you, really bad, the other day a friend was hittin on me and said"call me when you break up with him", and i just wanted to say"no, i love my boyfriend" and i've never wanted to say that before, but i dont wanna freak him out , should a wait a while longer?
2007-03-23 03:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really love him.... then tell him... the only time you should say i love you is when you really do truly love him... not before...not after... and as for that guy that was hitting on you... tell him "no i love my boyfriend"... good luck!.. im sure if he feels the same way.. he will say it too
2007-03-23 03:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the feelings a mutal between the two of you? Really you should wait to see how things will work out before you up and say the L-word and he's not even to that level of the relationship yet. So please just wait and see
2007-03-23 10:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a bit longer and when you feel like it's the right time then drop the L bomb
2007-03-23 10:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huney no matter if ur scared or not u need to tell him as soon as u feel that u do love him, its never too early but it can always be too late. look if ur relationship is as awesome as u say then im sure he probably feels the same way, just dont make it so serious when u tell him so that way he doesnt feel forced to say it back. follow ur heart....best wishes!
2007-03-23 10:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you love him then you do, but should you go expressing your feelings to him if he doesn't express his to you? I think not. Beat around the bush with questions to see if he likes you more than you think he does. Always let the man come out with those 3 words first okay. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 10:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him then tell him..... lol thats how i got my boyfriend to finally ask me out
: you see we knew each other and we both like each other we spent so much time together and we would get caught in the moment and kiss after some time i started to realize i loved him and he felt the same way but he was just to scared to ask me out....one day i said" what would you say if i hypothetically said i love you?" he imediately said i love you too.....and then i said well in that case i love you....
we've been together for 2yrs and 11 1/2 months we plan on getting married too
2007-03-23 10:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have been seeing each other for 2mth and now you say you are boyfriend and girl friend. LOve is amatter of trust does he trust you calling him your boyfriend?
It doesn't matter if he loves you both willknow but to have to say it to believe it may be your horrible answer.
keep dating if he loves you he'll prove it by showing it not by you saying it
Its your FIRST affair and you can make it your most special LAST
LOVE IS FOREVER ONCE YOU TAINT IT IT WILL BE HARD TO FIND BECAUSE YOU'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE HURT OF THE FIRST LOST luv (lust) instead of the first everlasting LOVE
2007-03-23 10:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by manoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why wait? Say it now. Why wait till later to say what you are feeling now? Life's too short baby. Don't waste time "figuring out" and "calculating" how to express what is pure and what is in your heart.
2007-03-23 10:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by 747 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the bomb now.
2007-03-23 10:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say when you feel it say it. That is what my bf did with me. I took me a little bit to say it back. I mean he might not say it back just yet. You have to set yourself up for that one though.... If he doesn't say it back it's not necessarily a bad thing.
2007-03-23 10:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋