well, as of a few minutes ago i am offically single agina yea, he cheated!!! With a 15 year old gurl!! So why does this stuff always happen!!! I am so tired of getting hurt I dont wanna cr anymore what can i do?!?!!? I dont want to feel this way anymore!!! Everyone tells me too move on but i dont have anyone to move on to!!!!! I hate feeling like this!!!!
2007-03-23 03:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to here that... try to cheer up.. yes, it hurts but its okay.. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.. if you don't wanna cry anymore try doing that you enjoy doing.. weather its playing sport reading a book or even just talking on the phone.. just something to clear your mind.. well i hope you feel better soon.. do cheer up... :)
2007-03-24 05:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Breaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try as much as possible to ignore your feelings they are keeping you in that funk your in. The fact that he cheated is a blessing in disguise I think cause he let you know his true colors and the sooner the better. What if he waited until you were married for 5, 10, or 15 years and this would've happened? Thank your luck stars you still have your youth and the experiences to help you survive the next life's experiences. Let it go he obviously wasn't and isn't worth the ground he walks on so move on with your life. Don't allow him to control you. Even though you're separated and you undoubtedly hate his guts don't allow him to control you by staying in this grief mode. Show him he f'ed up and that he is missing the best thing in the world. You know that saying, "you don't know what you got till its gone", well this is soon to be his fate! Your better than that and deserve something genuine and infinite! Good luck!
2007-03-23 10:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't group men together like that! There are some amazing men out there, and if he cheated on you, r u sure u want to be with him? I know it seems hard right now to move on, but it will get easier. If you two were friends before you started dating, don't mess up ur friendship just because of one of his mistakes! It's okay to think he's a complete idiot as a boyfriend and a really cool guy as a friend! Everyone hates getting their heart broken, but some how all of our broken hearts get put back together again. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 10:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people say move on. They mean move on with your life. Don't waste anymore time on him. They are not telling you to pick the first guy to move on.
Since your boyfriend cheated on you with a 15 year old, I assume you are under the age of 18 years old. This lesson should teach you that you need to rely on yourself and not another. Put your efforts into your school work. Plan your future for yourself, so you won't need to rely on anyone. If Mr. Right comes along great, but if Mr. Wrong comes along, you will not need to be dependent on him.
2007-03-23 10:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think too quickly when dating someone. take the time. ppl will change on u in a second. as soon as u think you know them it will change. i have learned this with past girlfriends. we're good, everything is fine but as soon as we think it's good we move in with each other and that when the real person starts creeping out. you see how ppl really are if you live with them. both sides are guilty of this. trust me
2007-03-23 10:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by sfslowcivicvx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith, keep praying. Be more selective in the guy. I am 47 and have never cheated. There are decent guys out their. I will pray for you. You will be okay.
2007-03-23 10:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by christ d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get on with your life.
If it's always happening to you, maybe you should look a little closer at these guys before hooking up with them.
2007-03-23 10:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by scooba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find better men - search for men that are intelligent and funny, and avoid the "bad boys"
2007-03-23 10:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love..
2007-03-23 10:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay alone for a while. I know it's hard to do, but once you learn to love yourself, it will be much easier to find the right one to give your love to.
2007-03-23 10:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋