how can u choose a husband?
Please don't answer both!
If u had to choose...
2007-03-23 03:35:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am about to be getting married in 2 weeks. I chose my husband because he is GOD fearing,family man,supportive,honest,dependable,hardworker,good communicator,good listener,good provider,nurterer,understanding and he loves me for who I am and he accepted my child as his own.I feel secure with him. He is my best friend.If I had to only chose from mind or beauty i would not chose.Some people can be the smartest person in the world but have no common sense what so ever. Beauty fades when you get older.When you have a good-looking man evrybody wants him.They usually have a huge ego.If I were you I would look for something more than than beauty or brains. Good Luck.
2007-03-23 04:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always choose the mind - Who are you going to talk with when you are both old?
2007-03-23 04:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by bg918 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind. The more I got to know my husband (before he was my husband) the more beautiful he became, inside and out.
2007-03-23 04:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you like his voice?
I heard somewhere that if you're considering marriage, liking someone's voice is more important and has more to do with compatibility than liking the way they look.
Ideally you want physical, mental, emotional and spiritual compatibility. So it's a more complex question than a simple choice between two virtues--looks and brains. But if you like one another's voices it indicates some kind of compatibility, and things like tone and how someone speaks to you and others...well, it can mean quite a lot.
2007-03-23 05:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fiona J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does that mean you have two guys, one looking great and the other one with brains, and you don't know, which one you like better? - Don't take either of them! If your chosen husband isn't good enough to beat any competition by the landslide (in your eyes), then you won't be content with him for long.
2007-03-23 05:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by LGM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind. I don't want an idiot to talk to everyday of my life for the next 50 years, and after 50 years no one will be pretty so what would you be left with?
2007-03-23 03:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, marry the man with the mind, have the kid with the beautiful man.
It's actually something people do, though they'll never realize it enough to admit it.
2007-03-23 04:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind and intelligence. Beauty is found skin deep.
2007-03-23 03:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a beautiful mind is far better than a beautiful face.
2007-03-23 05:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go for mind, having beauty means nothing
2007-03-23 03:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Tezza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋