we went out once before.. he seemed nice and all,
a little shy, we didnt flirt much.. but we did accidentally kiss
at the end ;)
he called straight after to say sorry,
he said he doesnt know me that well.
but we have been txting eachother and he called me
a few times and we are seeing each other tonight..
im a little worried because i dont really want to just have
a one nighter.. because it might hurt me more thinking
about my ex..
even though some say that
"the best way to get over a man is to get under another"
i would like to play it cool for a while but he did say he doesnt want a serious relationship at college right now because
he's been cheated on in the past... hmm can i change his mind because i know he has been single for ages now and maybe he is a little worried because he doesnt want to get hurt again and because he knows im on a rebound!
whichever way it will help me to move on with my life right?
2007-03-23 03:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax... do not sleep with him.. (lucky ba****d) :) i censored mmyself... anyway... get to knwo him find out what he is like be a frind first.. and if all else fails e-mail me...
2007-03-23 03:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does help to see other guys to help get over another, but it doesn't mean you have to sleep with them. If he's already stated he doesn't want a serious relationship.... I wouldn't count on getting one. I don't think you need another serious relationship anyways. I say date this guy and just let it be whatever.... don't think too much into it. Maybe later on down the road u'll find urselves falling for eachother, but if you tell him right away u r looking for a serious relationship... you're gunna scare him away and he probably will just use u for sex a couple times then ditch you.
2007-03-23 10:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by julilah2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been a tough few weeks for you, I can see.
The only way to know if he's only in it for sex is if he still comes around after no getting any.
As for the best way to get over an ex, I think it would be to find real happiness with someone else. The best way to do that is to try revealing some part of your soul (not all at once) to someone that you've begun to trust and see if he does the same. The more of yourselves that you're able to share, the easier it will be for you to understand him and for him to understand you.
Then, before you know it, you're ex is a distant memory.
Good luck sweetie. You deserve it.
2007-03-23 10:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a man is not to get under another - whoever said that was and is pretty "messed up". If he says he does not want a serious relationship, then don't open up your heart to him.
2007-03-23 10:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are in it for sex...it a natural function of the male brain.
That being said, if you play your cards right, this can lead to deeper feelings too. It's kind of a roll of the dice when you're talking about someone else's feelings though, so feel it out. And best of luck to you both.
2007-03-23 10:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is you plan on playing with this boy's heart then you need not to. He has been hurt before and he is making that known to you so that you don't try to get too deep with him and up and leave.
Take is slow. If he called to apologize for kissing you then I don't think he is just after sex. If you don't want to have sex...then don't.
2007-03-23 10:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think he s only about sex
he barely flirted with u and accidently kiss u
he wasnt aggressive if he was then u know he was only into the sex
so if i was u just test him and have fun
leave the past in the past
and move on live in the present and look for the future
2007-03-23 10:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry on. if he wants to go for another ride on you he will ask if not there are plenty of other men who will take you for a spin . have fun try some group action do it all now while you still a hot woman . later worry about what they are in it for . for now sex is good enough if more happens OK if not go for another spin.
2007-03-23 10:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him. See how long he sticks around. Every man is different and one who really wants to get to know you and be a permanent part of your life will wait for sex
2007-03-23 10:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not sound like he is only after sex --- and the best way is to just say no
agree with him about the relationship --- dont put labels on it --- let it develop and let it develop at its own pace
2007-03-23 10:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"the best way to get over a man is to get under another" ????
Who says this?
If you live by it, then the problem is not him.
2007-03-23 10:29:11 · answer #11 · answered by stranger2ooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋