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join a long waiting list and of course be of christian belief.

2007-03-23 03:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I am a Christian and got married 4 yrs ago. Also my Mum and Dad are ministers so I have some insight into this.

As far as the CofE goes the rules can be varied. Some churches will demand that you are residents in the parish, are full attendees and most importantly, a practicing Christian. Also, they will require you to attend Marriage Courses run by the Church. I know of one vicar who refused to marry a couple because they lived together. They were practicing Christians but to him they were not living as Christians. You have to admire his conviction if nothing else!

At the other end of the scale, they will take anyone who is willing to pay their fee. You don't have to be a Christian, live anywhere near the parish or even know anyone in the Church. I know a couple who picked a church simply because it looked nice on the photo's!

My personal opinion: The church have a duty to ensure that the people they are marrying are going into the whole thing with their eyes wide open and are doing it for the right reasons.

The short answer to any of this is to simply ask the vicar of the church you intend to be married at and see if they will agree to marry you.

Hope this helps.

2007-03-23 03:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Either the bride or the groom has to be resident in the parish in which the marriage is to take place. You will have to see the vicar first to see if you are legally able to marry in Church and if he is willing to perform the ceremomy. He will probably require both bride and groom to attend a class to ensure you understand the implications and responsibiliies of each towards the other in marriage, he may also insist that you attend church services for a particular lenghth of time prior to agreeing to officiate. If you opt to have the Banns read in Church you will have to be present on the three Sundays on which that happens. While you are not legally required to be a Christian ie believe in Jesus Christ as Saviour, you will be required to make your vows before God, if this is not something you feel you can do then you should perhaps look at an alternative.

2007-03-23 03:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by irisheyes 2 · 0 0

just go and speak to the vicar you then fill in some forms and make a date you will have to go and here your bans being read for a few weeks but that's it. hope your wedding will be a wonderful as mine was by the way I didn't get married in a church and it was still the best day of my life

2007-03-23 03:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't know all of it. But you have to attend church as many times as the prist requests in the uk. My inlaws had to go to church for a full year before they were allowed to marry.

2007-03-23 03:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by mcdonaldant 1 · 0 0

Call them and find out. Each church has their own set of rules to be married in them. Good luck and Congrats!

2007-03-23 03:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1 0

He would not might desire to be baptised as long as he's the two marrying interior the parish the place he lives or the place you reside. One question is - might your fiance % to be christened? to make confident that your venture is acceptable, it would desire to be properly worth checking with the minister. Michael mentions which you will possibly desire to baptised and shown to be a godparent - this was once the case some years in the past. those days, the requirement is which you will possibly desire to be baptised, yet no longer unavoidably shown.

2016-10-20 07:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

by law in england, the only requrements you need to fulfill is for one partner to be living in the parish of the church you wish to marry in. you dont have to be baptised or attend church, although you will need to attend to hear the banns read in the parish of both you and your partner.

2007-03-23 03:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by tinselturtle 2 · 0 0

My sister was married in the C of E she booked the wedding & that was it.Have a lovely day & congratulations.

2007-03-27 01:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0 0

Go and see a S of E Vicar, That should be you first port of Call.

2007-03-24 13:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

going to church regularly would be a good idea.

2007-03-23 03:25:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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