For the past week my GF has been going through some problems, her mother has been having heart problems and her car broke down and she is not having any luck finding a new car. Since then she has blocked me out.
On Saturday, she said she just needed space and she told me not to call her, but she'll call me. Since then she has called me 5 times. I went 1 day without talking to her and then 2 days without talking to her. On the 2 day period, I called her at work.
She seemed kinda hateful towards me and didn't talk much. Is this how girls act when they are going through a hard time? She keeps on saying to me "she doesn't know anymore" and I asked her if i could call her tomorrow, she said sure but she didn't know where she would be at. I asked her about us, she said we were alright, but she just acts weird when I asked her that.
Is this normal for a girl to act like this during a time like this? It bothers me she is blocking me out and not calling me. What can I do during this?
2007-03-23 03:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's very stressed out right now and having a hard time coping. People lash out at the people they love the most because they know that they'll take it. Just let her know you'll be supportive of her during this difficult time, but if it gets to the point that she's verbally abusing you, you need to sit down and have a talk with her and let her know that you love her, but she's hurting you, too. She might not even realize what she's doing.
2007-03-23 03:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting her take advangtage of you right this instant! I understand that she is going through a difficult time right now, but thats no excuse for her to treat you as she is currently doing. Call her up, take her to dinner, during dinner tell her that you understand what she's going through and want to be there to help her if needed, however her current behavior of blocking you out needs to stop. Tell her if she is uncertain about your relationship then just say so. Tell her that if she continues to push you away, that you are going to move on with your life, because a healthy relationship requires communication that goes both ways. Women have mood swings, that is a part of our life and when tough situations come along, sometimes we feel weak and helpless, yet determined that we can handle any situation on our own. This is no excuse for shutting you out though. She should be upfront and honest with you by being able to say that at the very least she is feeling a bit overwhelmed at the moment and finding it hard to handle things.
2007-03-23 10:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK yea it is kinda of normal, you gf is pushing you away... dont let her. Call her even if she doesnt answer your call she will know you are thinking about her. I would say just be there for her and maybe get her flowers or a small gift so that she knows you really care.
2007-03-23 10:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you are doing is causing her further stress, stop doing it. Can't you get the message. Leave her alone already. Evidently you can't help her now. Give her some space. You sound like a problem to me. YOu are getting on my nerves. Imagine what you are doing to her. Do you not understand English. You are dense.
2007-03-23 10:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋