2007-03-23 02:58:45 · 23 answers · asked by steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think it will work second time around then why not. Just bear in mind that there are reasons he is an ex.
2007-03-23 03:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all your ex is your EX for a reason. You need to think back and remember why you guys broke up in the first place. Before you give him another chance you should find out some things about him if he's changed, did he date anyone while he' was away, did he have any kids pop up while he was away, where was he this whole time, you know things like that. You know if my ex popped back up i'd never give him the time of day # 1 he's an ex for a reason. #2 i'm married now (so that wouldnt work) # 3 he's a cheater and no telling what he's got. You cant ever be too careful. But if you still love him and you think that he's changed then do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-03-23 10:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a little fun, or you just really want to be with him yeah!!! Why not a lot of people get back with a former boyfriend. But I just hope the break up was because he was leaving not for anything else, or that old reason can cause a problem. But you might want to tell him you have feelings for him so he just dont think it would be like a booty call! I would hate to see something like that to happen to you! Hope this helps you! Good luck! I really hopes it works out!
OH p.s. If hes flirting with you chances are he wants the same thing you do!
2007-03-23 10:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own experience with this type of thing: I am now an old married lady, but used to date and here goes. From my past, I can look back and say that when an ex came back flirting, it was because he didn't have a "special" lady at the moment and he came back to try to spend some "quality" time with me, because then he didn't have to find someone new and learn all her quirks. IF you get my DRIFT.
Also, I found that to be the case when a guy would insist he wanted to be "friends". He wanted be able to call me if he had a night free, and wanted it to be "memorable". If you catch my drift.
2007-03-23 10:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experience, it's best to learn from your past... not go running back to it. However, if you think there may be a chance for a relationship I would suggest that you NOT make the first move. This will give you time to think about the situation and really get a feel for what he wants from you. Try not to read to much into the fact that he's being friendly and coy. And if all else fails just be blunt and ask him what his intentions are. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-03-23 10:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by RealTruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steph, just let him flirt with you....don't respond to it so quickly.....he may be setting you up, want to see if you want what you cant have. Had an ex do the same to me, told my friend: As soon as she sees me she is going to want me all over again, well, I did go out with him but....he left with blue balls. While you do have feelings for this ex let him do all the work. Just take in all of his fliratious gestures, pretend you don't hear them.....then think before acting further...why did he become an ex in the first place?
2007-03-23 10:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by sunset 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is hard because he's an ex for a reason right? think about it. do you want to go thru the same things you went thru with him before? you may still have feelings for him, but why did he come back to you? what are his motives? if things don't work out are you going to hurt again like before? in the end it's your decision & what you want to do, but think about the consequences before you act on it.
2007-03-23 10:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the move again?? did you make the first move that started the relationship in the beginning?
if he feels the same he may come to you just wait a little and see what happens...
2007-03-23 10:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason.If you like to be hurt then get back with him.If you want a happy life then leave the past in the past and move on..
2007-03-23 10:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo ! Haven,t you learned your lesson yet,...There,s a reason he,s your X, Think about it, Don,t go down that road again, Get as far away from him as you can, Your be glad you did........Now stop beating the dead Horse.
2007-03-23 10:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋