I've been goin out with my bf for 3yr, and all i can think of lately is of my ex, or this really really cute guy i see everyday on my way to work. and i dont know wat to do!! plz help
2007-03-23 02:24:01 · 7 answers · asked by Candij 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are these sexual thoughts? If so you have some issues with your existing 3 yr relationship. Talk toyour man about it and work it out.
2007-03-23 02:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Candi:
You posed an interesting question. What do you do when you start straying mentally???
Instead of looking outside of your relationship, why don't you look inside of it and see what's really going on. Have you outgrown him? Can you still talk to each other? Before taking a trip outside, why not take a good hard look at your relationship and decide if what you have is worth working on. Don't do anything before you can honestly answer and have an honest conversation with the BF (I don't mean telling him you're thinking about other guys). I mean trying to identify what is the source of your dissatisfaction - not spending enough time together? Too many outside pressures? Whatever it is, work on that before you take any steps. Believe me, the grass is rarely greener on the other side.
Hang in there. Hope this helps.
2007-03-23 09:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by CGordo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone, not because you are with your boyfriend for that long you are suppose to forget about every other guy. Memories last forever especially the good ones. You can think about other guys and you and remember your ex, as long as you just think about them and nothing else. When you feel like doing something stupid like chatting with that guy u like, who you see everyday when you are on your way to work, think about how you would feel if your boyfriend flirted with another girl.
Take care and best of luck.
2007-03-23 09:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex must be getting boring. Try to spice up the relationship.
Sometimes we do become obsessed with the memories of a one particular happy time as well. Those memories creep up on us with out warning. It is also a sign of growing up!
2007-03-23 09:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all thats just infatuation or you are not the commitment types...so decide wht u want in life...maybe today you'll leave ur current bf for ur ex n then agaon some other day u'll like someone else then u'll him for ur ex.....and think wht if someone did the same with you...kept dumping you...how wud u feel?!!
2007-03-23 09:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need a little time apart from your bf. Go test the waters and if it doesn't work out you can always go to your bf.
2007-03-23 09:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're a whore. You want a little....from every man ya meet.
2007-03-23 09:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by WellDone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋