Things were going so well, and then, boom! It's gone. i just really hate my life! I'm sorry to vent. I am just really sad! Just for once, I wanted something to work out. I just want to be happy. I have been hurt so many times, it isn't surprosing that I am once again hurt. :(
2007-03-23 02:16:12 · 29 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know times seem hard right now but look at the bright side... things will get better. If you didn't have it bad now when you me the RIGHT GUY you wouldn't know how to be thankful and fully appreciate mr. right and not take advantage of what he is and what he does for you.
keep your chin up. soon he'll come and sweep you off your feet! be excited that he's out there looking for you too!!!
2007-03-24 03:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a book written by, Dr Phil McGraw of Opera fame, titled "Life Strategies". It gives 10 strategies required for survival.
To me, the most important was, "We teach people how to treat us." Think about it. You meet someone, clean slate, and they say or do something that makes you uncomfortable, do you say, Whoa there.... that's not right.
Or do you say to your self, 'It's OK.I want them to like me.' See? Find the book and read it. I've had a few copies but I keep giving it away.
You are in charge. If someone has the character to bring you down, don't give them the power to do it. You're driving the bus. If someone wants to come into your world they must know the rules.
People are diverse. Not all are meant to be compatible. If your subconscious is uncomfortable, listen to it.
If you go into a relationship hoping the person will like you, you've already lost because you just put them in charge. It's better to take time to find a real kindred spirit than try to make one from what is immediately available.
2007-03-23 09:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Caretaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme tell u something about life...it's all in what u make it. I have been unhappy, disappointed, rejected, cheated on, lied to, made a fool of, called everything but a child of God. And at times I felt like giving up!! But u know what I have a son to live for & he looks up to me. I am focusing on him, he's 6 & already a great guy. I am teaching him how a man should treat a lady. B/c it's hard out here for us women....all the men r either taken, in jail or gay.
Honey ur just gonna have to focus on something more than what's bothering u...whether it's love finances or etc...
I am a lil bit over weight so I am focusing on getting in shape...for the moment cause stress makes u age & people can see it!! Take care & God Bless :-)
2007-03-23 09:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, life can suck. It just depends on how you act and react. If its boy problems this is going to sound corney and stupid but boys are so not worth your tears and there are plenty of fish in the seas. And if it's work don't worry. Just remember everything passes everything changes. Nothing stays the same thats how life is. There are the amazing ups and the horrible downs that make you want to die. It happens. Just keep smiling.
2007-03-23 09:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hello there. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Honey, Life is what you make it and if something did not work out the way you wanted it to could be a indication that it was not for you . Don't give up whatever it was try again and you may have success this time .
Cheer up because life can be whatever
you desire it to be .
C
2007-03-23 09:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason, I know you have probably heard that a million times but it is true. I've set back and looked at my life and thought about all the bad times, but thats when you can say if that didn't happen this wouldn't have. (life is what you make it) Cheer up, things will get better, go out tonight and have a blast. Good luck!!
2007-03-23 09:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Casey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you keep getting hurt, it's time to look from within. The problem is not life: it's you. It may be that you're too naive--too trusting. You may need to grow up and stop letting people feed off of you. Understand that happiness comes from inside. Nobody can make you happy. Only the man in the mirror can do that.
2007-03-23 09:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boo-hoo. You think your the only one with problems?; instead of whining about being sad- go do something! Go to a cancer or burn unit in a children's hospital and tell those kids how hard your life is. Maybe go to a battered women's shelter and tell them. Perhaps when there is a foot of snow on the ground you could walk under the Alleghany Bridge in Pittsburgh and see the homeless people with their kids.
Now..if your done being so selfish- get a box of tissues, watch Titantic, then after all your tears are out.. concentrate on your to-do list tomorrow and go help someone that REALLY needs it.
2007-03-23 09:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
People get hurt all the time over and over trust me i know you'll always be hurt by someone i've been through it so many times that i'm pretty use to it and dont like to waste my time with people that i know in the end with hurt me but i always hope there will be someone who wont. just tonight i have a fight with two of my friends and they've hurt me and i'm no longer gonna waste my time with them cause it doesnt seem worth it.
2007-03-23 09:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey think back when you were single, if you can remember what makes you happy, then you have to start doing those things, you should know that when ever you get hurt getting back to your single life is the solution. I know that life is hard, but compared to what.
2007-03-23 09:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋