What do girls like to talk about?

Question

if im going to try and talk to a girl a dont know, what should i say? what do they wanna talk about? what do they wanna hear?

Answer 1

First of all Nanook, its obvious you aren't a teenager or you wouldn't be asking this. Paying a woman a compliment is always a good ice-breaker. Most women love to talk and want be heard more than anything. That doesn't mean just being quiet while we're talking. It means looking at us when we're talking and letting the words into your ears instead of bouncing off your forehead. I promise I am not picking on you. Its just men in general, mine included. Anyway, back to the question. Its okay to nod while she's talking and even add an occasional "Really?" to the conversation. When she starts to talk about something that you do understand and are interested in discussing further, you might say something like "Its funny you mentioned that, because_______." Don't drag it out too long though and become a conversation hog. And if she asks you something you're not sure how to answer (like what do you think of the girl over there? It might be a trick, could be her sister or her worst enemy.) Just turn it around and say "Hmm, what do you think of her?" Better to avoid those tricky questions. As far as worrying about what to talk about, don't sweat it. If she doesn't lead the conversation, you can always ask a very general question to get her going, (something like "What kind of music do you like?") If you like dancing, ask her if she likes dancing, but if you don't then don't ask. Ask if she works out (shows that you think she's in good shape, but if she's overweight, don't ask). Ask if she wears colored contacts because you think her eye color is pretty (shows you looked her in the eye). Just remember, don't dominate the conversation, keep it light and fun, add humor when appropriate, and show interest in what she's saying and you will be just fine.

Answer 2

It depends on soo many things.....Like where you are talking to her at...a restaurant...then talk about the food. You're asking for help on what to talk to her about AFTER the initial few minutes....which you pretty much just have to feel out and go along with. What you need help in is starting the conversation....If she likes you and seems into you, then I don't think there's going to be a problem keeping the conversation up. But the initial starting....For example...she's wearing a T shirt with a band on it.....you've never even heard of the band before.....but you could go up to her and say.....I think they look familiar...what are some of the songs they sing? Just something like that....but you can't pretend to know whatever just to start it...you'll look stupid. If you happen to know the band.....then GREAT very nice starting point. But it really really depends on a lot of things. Don't tell them what they want to hear, and don't listen to anyone on here who is going to spout off a bunch of stuff that they think women will want to talk about.....every woman is different....

Answer 3

It depends on the girl. Someone like me would like hashing out the history of Rock N' Roll or debating the Who vs. The Stones. It depends on if you're talking to a real girlie girl or not. And anyway, talk about what you want to talk about so you'll meet girls who have your same interest. You don't want to try talking to someone you have nothing in common with. It won't work.

Answer 4

Ok, i dont really know what all girls like to hear but what i like to talk to a guy about is eachothers hobbies, things we have in common, and FUNNY STUFF! I like guys that are funny and have a good sense of humor so try telling her something funny...just make sure its not obnoxious or a gross joke...those dont work on girls. lol GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

I like to talk about music. It's a great topic to find some common ground. More than one relationship I have been in has been introduced via a musical connection.

Answer 6

Dude, forget about what girls want to talk about! Unless of course you wanna talk about sex, clothes and shopping! Stick with what guys talk about and you'll be fine!!!

Answer 7

if you ever need something to talk about start talking about them....everyone likes to talk about themselves...and then she might ask you about you and then you talk about things in common, but I dont know about the girl so I dont know what kind of things to ask but just start talking about little things, dont make it look like its planned out but just start talking!;)
good luck

Answer 8

Girls tend to talk about everything you guys talk about... Find a common interest and you'll be fine!

Answer 9

Talk about the birds the bees the flowers & the trees!!

Answer 10

it depends on the girl
sporty/tom boy girls like to talk about sports and stuff kinda like boys
girly chicks (i hate that kind) will wanna talk about how good there are lol jk (not really.....seriouly they do) umm...... ask them stuff like for example - wat do u like to do for fun?? ask them stuff that involed themself
chicks like me (the kool kind lol) apparently i'm a tom boy with a small girly twist or the normal girls of the group it doesnt matter just start the converstation with any girl about wat they've been up to? and how they've been?
hope this helps