Both of you are very religious. You love God and you love each other, but when you're together passion is simply unstoppable. Even when apart, nothing seems capable of coming between you. You go through thick and thin to stay together for over a year and are only fully happy when you're with each other. Due to pressures from all sides (including spiritual) which you're both aware of, he tells you it's over because due to current circumstances he cannot marry you yet and continuing a relationship with you where passion is inevitable, would be sinful in the eyes of God. He tells you it's unfair to ask you to wait but wishes you would want to, because the intensity of this love is something neither of you have ever experienced before with anyone in your 30 odd years of life.
Nope, he isn't seeing anyone else.
Less than 24 hours after "calling it off" he calls you and says "I love you" I need you. Three days later he's still calling at least twice a day. You're both yearning. Now what?
2007-03-23 01:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by Sugar 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is the problem you both are in love. you cant fights love. i know that the spiritual thing is weighting on both of you but things happen for a reason. its obvious that you guys cant be with out each other dont fight just fow with it. good luck
2007-03-23 02:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh for goodness sake, I respect the fact that you both have your religion and that you feel you should wait until you are married before being together but come on, this is the 21st Century and neither of you will be struck down for doing what comes naturally.
Yours is obviously a relationship that is going to last so to give in to that temptation is not a bad thing it is just a natural progression of you love for one another.
2007-03-23 09:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The passion you feel for one another is one of God's gifts, it's not a sin unless the relationship is without love. When you're in love, it's what makes us bond as one. I think you two should get married and celebrate the gift of love and passion that God has given you. "Calling it off" is like throwing that gift away!
2007-03-23 09:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing wrong with being brought up to love god. He puts a guilt trip on you for doing somethings that's natural and that he created. Move forward in your relationship.
2007-03-23 09:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think I'd put up with it from a guy....but I'm not that religious either....... If you are, I would try to make it easier for him to deal with his obviously getting ready to explode passion. Sounds like he's finding it harder and harder to fight and he's really trying to for the sake of god. Make it easier for him to deal with it...
2007-03-23 09:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by t.larae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he married? If not, then he needs to get married to you! If he is married/separated, then dump his sorry lying butt. If not, then stop playing games. What are you waiting for? The second coming?
2007-03-23 09:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly he has some issues and if he lovs you so strongly he should be asking you to marry him and you both should be inthe store this week picking out the rings
DANG!
whats this guys problem anyway..mommys boy?
2007-03-23 09:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if he was going to wait... He might of shouldn't of pushed the passion so hard..
2007-03-23 09:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obsession!
2007-03-23 09:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it a second try and see how it goes. Hopefully everything will work out for you and him.
2007-03-23 09:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋