2007-03-23 01:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him, trust is everything
2007-03-23 01:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have insecurity issues. You probably shouldn't be going out with anyone until you get those sorted out. It's not fair to you or him. What you need to realize is that you can't control him. You are being to possessive and that's not ok. He can and will do what he wants to do and there's nothing that you can do about that. The thing that you need to focus on is having a good time when you are with him. If you do that then he will not want to do anything that will damage the relationship that the two of you have. Trust is something that you build. You have trust issues because you have too many expectations of your bf and not enough confidence in yourself.
2007-03-23 08:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you can't trust him? Has he given you reason not to trust him? If not then its you thats has the problem. You have a trust issue that rpobally goes back to childhood. You have to learn to let go of the past and the bitterness before you jump the hoop and get involved. If you can't get past your issues no relationship will ever survive.
2007-03-23 08:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by southernkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust isn't automatic, it isn't deserved, it isn't crucial. It is something you either have or you don't. It is something rare and special.
Listen to your gut. If you don't trust him, you don't. There is nothing you can do to force it. You might have a lot of boyfriends before you find a special one that you can trust. Just date and don't get hung up about it.
The whole trust thing is, not that you trust him, but that you trust yourself that you will handle whatever happens.
2007-03-23 09:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself: is it because he is not trustworthy, or is it your insecurity? Do you have real reason to believe he can't be trusted? Or, do you just not trust anyone, by nature? Be completely honest with yourself.
You don't offer a lot of details here. Tough to answer.
2007-03-23 08:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Maudie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, but when there is no trust, there will never be a good solid relationship from there on...in other words, there will always be doubt in your mind and do you want to live your whole lfe this way...? prob not....
maybe you'd be better "friends"
def not bf - gf ever ...
NEXT!
2007-03-23 09:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him, rid yourself of him!
2007-03-23 08:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda need more details but i can work with this....if u can trust her u could tell her strate up...or send her a e-mail........
2007-03-23 08:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please explain! Is he a liar? A suspected cheat? More info please! ;-)=
2007-03-23 08:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋