Okay there is this girl around my area, i hardly see her (only at the bus stop and not everytime) but there came a day, i approached her and asked her to be my friend. she smiled at first, but after asking her for her number, she was like "ermmm maybe another time" recently i did see her at the bus stop but i couldnt approach her again cause i felt i wouldnt know what to say..... i felt asking her for her number again at my approach will look stupid......i really like this girl but my problem is what to tell her before asking her for her number......WAT DO I SAY?
2007-03-23 01:41:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make small talk, you scared her the first time. Don't ask until you get to know her better, just keep meeting her at the bus stop and chat NICELY, after she realizes your not an Axe killer she will definitely give you her number. she may even say do you still want my number?
2007-03-23 01:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you hardly see her (only at the bustop) then she may not feel comfortable giving you her number as you are a stranger to her.
You need to introduce yourself first, and maybe make a little small talk while you are waiting at the bus stop... talk about the weather, or where you are going, or maybe comment on something she is wearing or whatever.
Don't ask her for her number again until you think she is a little more comfortable around you. You might scare her off!
If you can't think of what to say to her at the bus stop then there is little sense getting her number because you obviously have nothing to say to her!!!
2007-03-23 08:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Peta G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try complimenting her like just telling her how pretty she is or something like that will really make her feel good about herself i think you need to get to know her before asking her for her number try just being mates first and see if anything develops from there.
2007-03-23 08:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by So confused but together 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a single rose to the bus stop and tell her you would like to get to know her better and ask her if that is possible.
2007-03-23 08:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you basiclly failed "the test" girls give ..
tell her next time."give me your number or email and give her a piece of paper to write it down and dont take no (or "maybe later") for an answer this time ..say.."I promise I'll only call or email only 50 times a day, no more" and smile and hand her the paper and just stare at her and say.."it's ok, just write it down"
if she doesn't this time just act like well, your loss sweetie and say something like "well then quit looking at me like a piece of meat and you want me"
if she doesnt like you she prob wont respond to any of this
NEXT !
2007-03-23 08:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about asking her for a number. Better yet, don't talk to her at all. Stop being so nice, if you are. Girls want a butthole.
2007-03-23 08:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you moveing to fast,, slow down, an the next time you see her, try like you look nice to day,, are you got a lovely smile,,, girl are like boys an men, you get farther if you go at it slow,, it a big turn off, to run at them like a bull in a chine shop,,,,
2007-03-23 08:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hello and if she wants to continue the conversation she can and no dont ask for her number ---- talk get to know her and she will offer the number
2007-03-23 08:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask again just tell her u want 2 talk n hang out
2007-03-23 08:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask her for her number...she is not interested...when you see her say hi and goodbye and if she wants to talk she will....find someone who wants you..........like yourself...
2007-03-23 08:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋