this guy is trying to get me to become a escort, good idea?

Question

Someone i know is trying to get me to become a escort, i am really tempted the money is sooo good and im really desperate for cash as i am in debt. I have slept with men before and not enjoyed it so i might as well get paid to do it. Builders use thir body to make money so isnt it just the same as that? Will i regret it later? is it a good idea or not? im thinking of the money

I dont like sleeping with guys but in the past i have still done it, the only difference with this is i'll get oaid for it! so why not? I dont enjoy it but i am good at it, i fake and do all posisions

Answer 1

I take it you know what "Escort" is a euphemism for ! ! !

Answer 2

Move to Nevada and work at the Chicken Ranch or whatever that place is there. Prostitution is legal there, they make good money and you get tested for disease, have men there to protect you. If you need the money that desperately, then do it legally. Also, use the money you make to get a nursing degree or some other high paying job and better yourself. Make a budget and start cutting your expenses in the meanwhile. If you can't move to Nevada...get a 2nd job, stay clean and sober, don't risk an arrest record to screw up your future and batten down and do the best you can. Do not let any person, man or woman, talk you into prostituting yourself. Street prostitutes run so many risks...violence, death, substance abuse, being in abusive relationships and it is hard to get away. It starts so easily, sounds so simple, but the end is never good. It's your body...you make the choices!!!!

Answer 3

If you have been severly abused, and you can not obtain happiness, money might be your best friend. Make sure that you have weighed your odds b4 you cross the line though. It seems like that is what you are doing, since you asked the question. Understand that a prostitute's life is usually full of emotional pain, and most, use drugs to escape. Even though you may be good looking enough to make lots of money you will have no power. You will be a whore. If you want power, you marry some *** with lots of money. I can completely understand not wanting live a lie and be a homo's female dog. Pimps tell you what you wanna hear, and sell your dignity. Remember that you cant get it back.

Answer 4

Being an escort would be like being a glorified prostitute.Money? How important is it? Not as important as your self esteem!! You are worth more than that, selling your body will only make you feel worse about yourself even if it does bring in loads of cash! Do something that makes you feel happy (and you get paid for ) not something that you don't enjoy.The guy who is trying to get you to do this "job" is only in it for big bucks, he's not doing you any favours, and for that matter he would not be putting himself at risk of all sorts of nastys.DONT DO IT!! I think you would regret it later.

Answer 5

no, think of your health and safety.. builders use their hands and backs to earn their money. thats a heck of a lot different than letting men use you for sex. with all the stds and sexual predators that are in this world dont risk it. and an escort is just a gloifired name for a hooker. pretty woman was a good movie....but its not the real world. watch the news and see how many prostitutes are being killed and dumped by the sides of the road etc.

Answer 6

I have had a friend who was once an escort. She needed to money to pay for school studying nursing. It is not a good idea, but its not bad either. If you wanna go ahead with the idea, cool. Just make sure that your friend has nothing to do with that and that he is getting ZERO out of it. Do it through an agency anf if you cannot be independent. Always use portection and check it every know and then to make sure it didnot break. Do it just to get rid of your debt and maybe go to schol and get you self a real job. But dont make it a job. U STILL NEED TO THINK IT THROUGH

Answer 7

Consider the risk to your health. Aids /HIV, a host of other STDs, not to forget an unwanted pregnancy. You can never be really safe even with a condom or other protection, do you really think the money could make up for a life in ruins or an early death?
The guy wants to make money out of you, send him on his way with a flea in his ear and respect yourself, you're better than this.

Answer 8

This is a joke, right? You have to be KIDDING me! NO it is not a good idea. Builders don't risk getting AIDS every time they go to work. Sorry, but this is a lethal occupation, and it leads to prison or a morgue. Find Better friends, learn to love yourself and realize that money is not that important - but if you really want to make some, do something you love, not something that is lethal and that you don't enjoy anyway.

Answer 9

Don't get involved. Once you are in it's well difficult to get out. You will loose your self esteem and moral. If you need money , you must try and find work to help, but not selling your body. Some people dont mind doing it, it depends on self-respect i guess. I get offers like this from women all the time, but don't do it (joke) ; )

Answer 10

Why should you do what someone else wants you to do? You obviously want to do if for the money but selling yourself isnt really a good idea. Builders use their hands, it's a skill, theyre not selling themselves though.

Answer 11

The money is good for a reason.... because it's a dangerous, immoral job that most women would not degrade themselves to do.
There is other ways to work yourself out of debt rather than selling yourself.
You seem to try to justify it to yourself by comparing yourself to a builder?? Nice try but it isn't even close.
Have more respect for yourself.
Don't go down this road.
As for the guy who is trying to persuade you to do this.... ditch him FAST!!!!!! He's no friend that's for sure!