2007-03-23 01:23:13 · 20 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah man I think im going through that right now, My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and i do love her very much but I am not happy with alot of things. She is un motivated. Cold, Doesn't show her emotions well and its taken a heavy toll on our relationship.
2007-03-23 01:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it isn't possible. Unless you are talking about the love shared by parents and kids or siblings. In which case I think it is possible. A child can do something that makes a parent unhappy but love is never ending. I would say in a loving romantic relationship the love is an integral part of happiness. Great question. I am not entirely sure I am right and could be convinced to go the other way when reading other responses I am sure.
2007-03-23 08:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. you are probably just being "in love" with them because they want you to. This is pretty common, in fact, one person always loves a little more than the other. Yet the greater the rift, the worse the feelings you are experiencing can be.
If you are the person who is "the pursued" think long and hard about whther you are enjoying the role.
Unless the problem is that you are just unhappy with the right things, in tha case you might not be able to love until you learn how to be happy.
2007-03-23 08:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually you can. I was in love with this guy named nick. He was everything to me. But the thing is, the whole time we were going out, i was pretty much crying every night cause he made me feel like S**T. Its really possible. But relationships like that are not the kind you wanna stay in. It will drive you into depression. I almost lost my kids cause of it. He drove me to drink everyday. So if i was you i would sit down with that person and talk to them about it. Maybe you can come up with something that make you and her happy. Then it just might work out.
2007-03-23 08:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by cexymama696969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Love is forever. Feelings are temporary. You have to know why you are not feeling "happy" with that person. What would make you happy is what you need to communicate with the one you love. Try to communicate these feelings with your partner first before bailing out. Maybe your partner is willing to compromise in the relationship so that you will be happier together.
2007-03-23 08:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it can lead to that.
i never loved anyone before my children's father or since, (and i am in my 40's) -there wasn't much I wouldn't have done for him, except sacrifice the children which is what he wanted.
i loved him, but I was miserable knowing i would have to leave him to give them any kind of life. (it was the best decision, of course, i ever made)
so here is an example that yes, it is possible to end up in a situation where you love someone very deeply but not feel happy with them.
almost anything's possible after all. good luck.
2007-03-23 08:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe so. After my ex broke it off with me, i never really dettached myself from him. Im still in love with him. But i also believe that if him and i were still together, at times i wouldn't be happy. But i suppose its the small things that piss me off about him that also draw me to him. Its a tuff question really. Could it be that a person could be in love with a person because they choose what they want to know and want to believe. What they want to feel? But when the obvious takes hold. All those small things that piss you off...drive you insane start creeping out and you start considering...having second thoughts about the relationship.
2007-03-23 08:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because your in love with them but you're just unhappy with the way the relationship is going.
2007-03-23 08:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. that is a sign you two need some talk time to work on finding and fixing what is making you or both of you unhappy.
2007-03-23 08:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but you should talk to them and tell them that you are not happy. If you want it to work and they do too then they will do anything (within reason) to make you happy again.
2007-03-23 08:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Amber C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋