she is always telling me who to date. yes i am only 13, but still. She says a 16 year old is too old 4 me. but my grandfather says he's not. I live in a small town, and she wont even let me walk around town! what should i do?? i really love this boy... and all my friends want me to walk around town!
Also before u say i don't kno what luv is read this! my longest relationship was 4 YEARS! and i am not a virgin i lost that at 12... i kno how to use protection... AND i was engadged!! me and that guy brock up the day before our wedding... and my mom was gonna sign the paper to let me!
2007-03-23 01:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shouldn't you be at school??
2007-03-23 01:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see you are 13 and already have been in a 4 year long relationship, you are no longer a virgin, you were engaged but it was broke off the day before you were to get married. Girl, slow down and be 13. I dont blame your Mom for not allowing you to walk around town. And at 16 he needs to be with girls his own age. And you need to concentrate more on school and your education. If I was your Mom you wouldnt be going anywhere other than school and coming home and doing your homework. Sounds like you need a firmer set of rules to live by.
2007-03-23 01:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you 13 and u r bragging that you are not a virgin
do you think you are more of a grown up cuz u have had sex to be honest i think u r a silly girl
im 19 been with my bf 5 years and i was 16 when i lost my virginity& even that was 2 young.
Your still a child..&uv been engaged(where exactly do u live!!)
your mother is out to protect her child probably in the hope by the sounds of it that her daughter doesnt get pregnant or contract an std
U want ppl to treat you like an adult try acting a bit mor mature like one.
2007-03-23 01:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl - get a real life! Why are rushing through young adulthood so fast? Maybe your Mom is trying to shelter you from any mistakes -- unfortunately parents can't always do that.
It's great that you protect yourself sexually from pregnancy and diseases, but honestly you are going to be burnt out. And the sad thing about it is -- I bet the boys you're dating won't even think about you when they graduate high school.
Think about your future and plan on college or technical school so that you can make a decent salary/life for yourself and you won't have to depend on anyone to live.
2007-03-23 01:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy or just looking for some attention. You need to slow down and live life without boys! you are 13 going on 31, and still haven't matured. almost getting married should make you think about life even harder. Find time to find out who you really are, you still got a lot of growing to do.
2007-03-23 01:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by V LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom was going to sign for you to get married, then why wont she let you have a 16 year old boyfriend? And, your telling us that you had a 4yr. relationship, and your only 13? Ok, how old are your really?
2007-03-23 01:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by pebbles 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean, but what do you mean you were engaged, and your mom was going to sign the papers for you to get married? That sounds crazy to me. I also wouldn't be bragging about loosing your virginity, especially at the age of 12. You need to worry about your school work, and remind your mom that she was going to let you marry another guy, so what's the big deal about this one. Maybe she knows something about him that you don't. You never know unless you talk to her about it.
2007-03-23 01:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what love is. You don't even know how to spell and use proper grammar. Four years doesn't make up for the fact that you broke up with each other under the pressure. You're not ready. I agree with your mom that you shouldn't go out with that boy. She's just trying to protect you. She knows more than you do. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-23 01:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lisdten to your mother..by what you wrote you sound very very very immature...you were with someone 4 years? Oh please...and engaged..you are and were way too young to be in either of thoes situations...your brain hasn't grown enough to be in any relationsjip....do the RIGHT thing and be a girl..a child like GOD intended for you to be and live......when you reach womanhood then worry about these things...you are a child!
2007-03-23 01:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that 16 year old is willing to date a 13 year old, there's something wrong with him! That just seems a bit odd to me.
2007-03-23 01:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by WellDone 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you get to serious to fast and that is a sign of immaturity. Slow down and enjoy life. It's not all about boys!
2007-03-23 01:24:47 · answer #11 · answered by lilmama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋