what do u do when u are really down? for the last 4years u spend every waking moment making her happy and as a result it makes u happy as well, but what do u do when suddenly ur all alone and lonely?
2007-03-23 01:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to learn to like yourself and have peace within. You've spent the last 4 years ignoring yourself, who you are, your own identity. A great relationship does not mean groveling at anothers feet to make them happy, it both parties giving 110% to make each other happy. You were in a one-one relationship thats called her her her!!!!. Think back before you met her, things you did, things you likes, hobbies, get involved with yourself and learn to love you before you love someone else.
2007-03-23 01:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by southernkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an xbox 360, get some good games and get on xbox live and join the gaming community. Actually, you made a mistake that a lot of us make, you made someone your "everything". When you make someone your everything, and then one day they are gone, what does that leave you with? My advice to you is start making you happy. Do this by rediscovering the things you did and enjoyed prior to your everything coming into your life. It is a good starting point because until you are living your life for you, and happy with who you are and what you have, the fact is, you are not ready for a new relationship.
2007-03-23 08:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Go out and meet other people. Meeting and spedning time with others will fill the lonliness. You may also meet the one you thought you had for 4 years. Keep yourself busy. Idle time is what gives you time to sit and think about the awful things you haven't allowed yourself to get over. Move on. Go meet some people.
2007-03-23 08:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about first what makes you sad for almost 4 year. then, face the fact! don't ruin your days, your every morning thinking of your past, it's not worth it. don't feel the emptiness inside yours, make your self busy. theres so many things worth your attention, thinking of someone to be at your side? don't bother your self about it, it will come at the right time and place. don't put on your mind the things that makes your heart lonely. "happiness depends on your thoughts" hope it will help.
2007-03-23 08:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Emerald_1828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have a good cry...yell...get mad..scream at the tope of your lungs...go far away in a forrest or sit in your car ith the radio blaring.......then you pick yourself up, dust yourself off...stop the pity party adn go do something you like doing...join a club, go for a hike...be around people that love you for you......being outside with nature works wonders...clears the head..walk..walk...walk....it works...I've been there a few times...more than any human should have to be so trust me.....good luck!!
2007-03-23 08:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to get your mind off her. Start working out. Study more. Play World of Warcraft. Do something. Do anything. If you sit around and think about her you will go crazy. Her voice, her smell, the way she touched you, will haunt you like a flipping ghost. (Trust me i know)
2007-03-23 08:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by UnderTigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real way is Time unfortunately. Spend a lot of time with close friends to keep your mind off of it. It will eventually get easier.
2007-03-23 08:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. Why don't you try to find some friends on the internet to chat with. Go to myspace.com and set up an account to meet people and find long lost friends. Also, you can surround yourself with family and do things with them. God bless!
2007-03-23 08:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy. If you can't focus, try taking a vacation or a road trip. If you're religious, this is a good time to turn to God and revalue the things in your life.
2007-03-23 08:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to take care of yourself man!
It's to to explore your interests. Read some books, go fishing, take a walk in the park. Anything you do at first is going to hard becuase your use to doing it with her. It does get better.
2007-03-23 08:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋