ok, so i really like this boy in my school, i've liked him for a while now. at first things were going fine, he was gonna take me to the dance and everything, but a few days before the dance he started going back out with his ex. i was fine with that till a month later he told me he liked me and everything and then he would ask what would we do if things were different and if we would ever hook up..and just the other day, he told me that his girl friend broke up with him and i fond out yesturday that they never broke up!??
i dont no what to do anymore..because i really like him and i dont know why...but he just means so much to me and my friend tells me to move on..but i just cant give all that up.
2007-03-23 01:13:53 · 5 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got to clarify things with him, whether he's still going out with the other girl. If it's true, then I feel that you should give it up, cause he's only going to make you feel worse and worse. He doesn't shows his commitment towards you and he's attached to another girl. You've got to move on, he's not the one for you.
2007-03-23 01:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friend, move on.
Until he actually is broke up from his girlfriend, look for someone else to like. A relationship with a guy who lies like he does, will only end in who ever he is with getting hurt, Hopefully by the time they break up you will have found someone else, he is bad news forget him!! Also think of the other girl, he is most probably lying to her to, but after all she was there first. Would you want another girl interfering with your relationship if you had him? Well, that is exactly what will happen if you. He isn't going to stop with her, or you, there will be lots of others. Besides you don't even know why you like him, keep him for a friend if you want, but don't get tied up with just one boy. You have your whole life ahead, you just need time to grow up first. Ya all do!
Good luck you will need it!
2007-03-23 01:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by CAT LADY LOO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All what??? All his lies? Be glad that you know he's a two timing louse before you completely loose your heart to him. Girl, this is a major jerk...they don't come any bigger. Get yourself a sheet of paper and list as many good things about him as you can( looks only count as one..you can't list anything separately in that category) and as many bad things as you can in the other column. Get help from your girl friends on this because you may not see all his faults. See which side is longer.
2007-03-23 01:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair to you to keep being the girl he runs to when it is convenient for him. It is hard to distance yourself from someone that you really care for.....easier said than done for sure..but you need to find someone who wants to be with YOU. If you want a relationship with someone then you have to look for someone who wants to be with just you....don't you think you owe it to yourself to find someone that is there for you? Obviously you have a kind heart but don't waste it on someone who doesn't appreciate it. There are plenty of people out there like you who will want what you are looking for......sometimes you just have to keep moving on til you find that special person.
2007-03-23 01:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by alymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm its not cool if hes going to play you like that. if he said they broke up and they didnt then thats problem. and you shouldnt have any part in that. let him know that you know they are not broken up. and tell him once he really is broken up then maybe u can see what happens. such a stupid thing for him to lie about
2007-03-23 01:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋