she is always telling me who to date. yes i am only 13, but still. She says a 16 year old is too old 4 me. but my grandfather says he's not. I live in a small town, and she wont even let me walk around town! what should i do?? i really love this boy... and all my friends want me to walk around town!
2007-03-23 00:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always telling me who to date. yes i am only 13, but still. She says a 16 year old is too old 4 me. but my grandfather says he's not. I live in a small town, and she wont even let me walk around town! what should i do?? i really love this boy... and all my friends want me to walk around town!
Also before u say i don't kno what luv is read this! my longest relationship was 4 YEARS! and i am not a virgin i lost that at 12... i kno how to use protection... AND i was engadged!! me and that guy brock up the day before our wedding... and my mom was gonna sign the paper to let me!
2007-03-23 01:17:53 · update #1
Also before u say i don't kno what luv is read this! my longest relationship was 4 YEARS! and i am not a virgin i lost that at 12... i kno how to use protection... AND i was engadged!! me and that guy brock up the day before our wedding... and my mom was gonna sign the paper to let me!
2007-03-23 01:18:35 · update #2
You know the reason why your mother is so "strict" with you is because you're a girl. It's true. My mother was the exact same way, but she's only protecting you. and later on down the road, you'll be grateful and appreciate all the things she didn't let you do.
I wasn't allowed to start dating until I was 16 years old, and my parents had to meet him before they approved. and it was a damn good thing they did,too.
Even though you live in a small town, bad things can happen. You're barely a teenager, you're still a kid. you need to abide by your mother's rules even if you don't like them.
and this "love" for this boy that you're talking about is more than likely infatuation. don't confuse it with love. you may think it's love, but really, it's not. and i highly doubt this boy loves you back. as harsh as that may sound. and again. later on down the road, you'll realize it wasn't love.
Just be happy your mother is looking out for you.
2007-03-23 01:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to let yourself grow up first. I wish you would understand me when I say be a kid, you have your whole life to be a grown up. I'm not going to say that you're not inlove with this guy, but you'll have quite a few relationships before settling down. Relationships aren't the sole reason we're in this world. There's more out there for you. :-)
I don't think losing your virginity at 12 is something to be proud of, you're still a child. Take care of yourself and give your mum a break, she's only doing the best job she knows how. (((hugs)))
2007-03-23 08:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by alicia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurry things! You have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love. Your hormones are telling you that you love this boy. Do as your mother says and you will be thankful years down the road. You'll look back and say "I can't believe that I thought that I was in love with that guy" icky!
2007-03-23 08:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very young to even date. You mother wants whats best for u.. She doesn't want u to get in the wrong crowed and get into any terrible. Or perhaps end-up getting pregnant before u are even 20..Listen to your mother she means good for you ..boys come and go.. Concentrate on your studies..
2007-03-23 08:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darl even if you live in a small town parents don't care about that they are still protective too protective, i know how you feel, ive been through it. but just go along with wat ur mum says for now and you never know she might change her mind. You're mum is there for a reason to stop you doin this.
2007-03-23 08:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz u dont love him...i bet if u did go out with him u 2 would break up in about a week or 2.just give it up... although i do agree that ur mom is going a bit far with not letting u go around ur own neighborhood.
2007-03-23 08:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go with your mother at this age this difference is quite more when u will be 25 then even a 40years man would do
2007-03-23 08:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Caring 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. You're infatuated with him. Honey, it's the hormones. Don't hurry love. You have so much life ahead of you.
2007-03-23 08:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and do your homework, your mother is right, you are too young to know what is good for you
2007-03-23 08:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Stargate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well listen to ur mom, she has experienced life more than what u have...
2007-03-23 08:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋