he dumped me 2 months ago from a 2 year relationship an now he is always round his best friends house who is a girl, we were talking on the phone last night an he said he was coming out on saturday an i said about this lad who was coming out an that he fancied me he went quiet ad today he told he friend that he was still thinking about coming out on saturday im thinking of asking if he will just hang with me do you think he will please help i dont know what to do please help
will he hang with me please help
2007-03-23 00:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my own personal experience, once you break up with someone you need to spend some time not seeing or speaking to each other. Chances are, trying to be friends too soon after a break-up will only to lead one person getting hurt. Generally one person is still hoping that you'll get back together, while the other thinks everything is just fine being friends. When the person who wants more finally realizes the other truly does just want to be friends, they end up getting hurt all over again.
If he really does want you back, let him work for it. He broke up with you. Are you really ready to trust him again? Has he earned it? I'm not saying don't give him another chance, but I am suggesting you think of what's best for you first. If he really wants you back, and truly wants to be more than friends, he'll understand that you need time for you, and that he has to earn your trust again.
Whatever happens, I wish you happiness.
2007-03-23 01:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ida B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend broke it off two months ago, its because he felt it was time for him to move on. I Don't think you should be hanging out right now, its only going to hurt you more. You will keep thinking about what you two once had instead of working on your friendship. If I were you, I would stay away from him untill you are sure you are over him, just explain to him that right now its still to painful and theres to many memories. You also mentioned about another guy who likes you coming to see you on the very same day. I think you should give the new guy a try for now and start dateing again and give yourself some time to heal. Good luck.
2007-03-23 08:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that you are upset about being dumped, but you have to move on. He doesn't want you anymore. The only thing you're going to get out of hanging out with him is hurt. He dumped you once, he'll dump you again. Just stay friends. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-23 08:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if he will hang out with you but if you call a=him and ask him if it can just be the 2 of you it really doesnt hurt to try you already lost him now the only thing you can do is try an get him back since you have nothing to lose!!!
2007-03-23 08:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that he dumped you says that he stopped caring as much as he used to. Most likely he won't show up. Guys will tell you that all the time but when it comes down to it they don't ever do what they say they will. If he does show up then he might still care a bit.
2007-03-23 08:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard! bloody hard what youre going thru.bu you know what? you still got you.respect aand appreciate your self.take alook in the mirror what do you see?you owe the reflection alot,slow down to think about what you might loose,and if it would be the nd of your world?
you still got life and air in your lungs.breathe,live ,love,pain will surely come but yo cant let it slow ou down.chin up,chest out.now go!!!
2007-03-23 08:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't read in to the future sorry..
2007-03-23 08:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋