alright i am having a few insecurity issues.. i realize whats causing them.. i know nothing can be done about them.. i don't even want to mention whats causing them to my bf...
i realize i'm being dumb.. but growl..
I really don't like being insecure.. BAH!
2007-03-23 00:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you only knew how hideous i really am
2007-03-23 09:18:05 · update #1
What's your question? Do you want advice? I'm not sure what you want. It would help if you told us a little about your insecurities. I'd love to help, please restate your question and add some details.
nicole
2007-03-23 00:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is a lack of confidence.. Look in the mirror every time you feel this way and convince yourself that you are the opposite of your insecurity.. ie, "I won't be jealous because I'm better than her. And if he wants her, he's a loser." "I am the prettiest person on Earth. Anyone would be lucky to have me."
Just make sure you don't become conceited. Little by little you will convince yourself.. Give it time.
2007-03-23 07:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot expect someone else to love you until you love yourself.
I hope that you are able to overcome these insecurities sooner rather than later. It's amazing how something to tiny can cause us to throw our own lives away and nt realize it until it's too late.
Have a fantastic day!
2007-03-23 07:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growl and Bah? I take it you are having issues deciding if you are a wolf or a sheep.
2007-03-23 07:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to being insecure i could be the poster boy.
mine kills me,could send me to an early grave.its hard being a jealous and sligthly possesive person.
how to handle it? disconnect,it wont be easy,but you got to.love and pain are synonymous.if your insecurities will come to reality ,they will,theres nothing you can do but learn,love and live.no matter what.
plus remember you only live once,dont live it in fear ok?
2007-03-23 08:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay, we all get insecure sometimes. you wouldn't be human if you don't feel self-conscious. but instead of whining over your flaws, count your assets and blessings instead.
look in the mirror. you still have a lot to be thankful for.
2007-03-23 08:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by cara_hermosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
INsecure means you do not like or love yourself...go get some help or read up on it and get yourself happy
2007-03-23 08:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what ever it is , and whoever it has to deal with you should talk to them about it that maybe the only way to get over your problem that you are having. If you feel that you can trust someone you need to tell them that and why you cant trust them.
TALK TO HIM/HER/THEM...
2007-03-23 07:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beer ! that's about all I'm gonna say
2007-03-23 07:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Gay R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋